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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I really like this girl who I met at work. She has a boyfriend. We started texting and flirting a lot. I tried to make a couple of dates with her but kinda blew me off.Later when I was about to give up hope we arranged a beach date. We made out several times intensely but each time she had a bad gut feeling. She feels horrible for doing this to her boyfriendI really like her so much but I am afraid out of guilt it might push her closer to her boyfriend (for a while at least)She still talks to me afterwards but I really don't want to be shoved into the friend zone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2012): While what you are giving me is good advice. I like her and want to play this game and win. I know I may be hurt but I am not closing off other options in my life. Perhaps I will end up dating someone and like them better.
For now I am backing off a little and will try playing hard to get. But any advice on how to get her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2012): Well to be honest my friend, she is pulling all the strings here. You are her bit of fun and if she decides to call an end to it, she has her boyfriend to go home to, you will have nobody.
It doesn't sound like she's planning to leave her boyfriend for you, so if things on your part are getting more serious, the safer bet maybe to put a stop to it now, or you risk getting hurt.
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