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writes:i about a week ago i saw one of my exs who i had a miscarriage with. But i wanted out and now i have seen him i really love he and want him back, i would do anything. the past couple of nites i havent been able to sleep and i cant get him out of my head. but he realised that i really liked him cause i cant help myself from being all over him.he stressed that he has a girlfriend and he wont play about behind her back. he said to me that he cares about me but i dont know if he is just saying that. I've left messages on his phone to call and i rang his work to speak to him but his mate answered, who tried spilting us up all the time before so, i dont no whether he will get my message.want can i do. i want him back.i feel very depressed over this, it really getting me. can i get him back . xxx
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (25 February 2007):
 Think back to the reasons of why you broke up with him in the first place and that will give you a bit of strength.I understand that you may have thought the grass was alot greaner on the other side and it sounds like you havent met anybody else after your break up i dont think a rebound would be the best idea in your situation however i do think that you should find yourself first but at the same time go out and enjoy yourself and im sure that you will meet somebody who is just as lovely as you are.I can only go by the information you have given and by the sounds of it he has moved on and met somebody else you have wore your heart on your sleeve and told him how you feel the ball is in hes court let him be the one to make the next contact with you, In the mean time do some retail therapy get your hair, nails the works to make yourself feel better and i know it sounds petty but always make sure you are looking stunning so that if you bump into him he can see what hes missing and act cool and not really bothered if he asks how you are say great and be the one to end the the convo first eg. anyway must run got lots of things to do all that jazz good luck but first of all love yourself and if he doesnt come back begging he isnt the one for you and im sure you will meet somebody else better.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (24 February 2007):
 He's told you he has a girlfriend and he wouldn't go behind her back. You leaving messages on his phone will only make him step back even more. Don't keep texting and calling him, you're only making a fool out of yourself doing that and it makes you appear desperate. Next time you see him let him know you respect the fact he has a girlfriend now and you're quite happy just to remain friends with him.
If he ever breaks up with his girlfriend and you are still friends then he might want more but until then you'll have to be content with being friends only.
Eve
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