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writes:Thers stupid rumours in my school about me n im sick of them! yesterday at school everything was fine and this morning i heard this boy fancies me and now everyone thinks were going out its really annoying all day people kept on asking "are you going out with him??" and i had to keep saying no and its really bothering me because nobody believes me that were not going out and everyone thinks we are. i dont even feel like going up to the boy i dont like him at all and he doesnt even know me very well. how do i stop this, its really getting to me! ps. im not dating himpss. im not dating anyone else thanks x Reply to this Question
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (2 December 2006):
 Show u dont bother it was probably the boy who said u got off or somebdy jealous who did not want u to pick up with somebody else you could try holding hands and stuff with a friend of yours and see if there's new roumour ;) take it easy it's non important
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reader, howtocope +, writes (1 December 2006):
Just wanted to let you know that when you are finished school everthing bad that happend there stays there. Im sure your friends with one person one day and not the next and so on and so forth. People spread silly rumors all the time but in a few years you will know who your true friends are and you will forget all about these rumours or look back and laugh at how upset they made you when they were just silly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2006): As you already know, once the word spreads, it spreads and there is really no end to it at the initial moment. That is, until it is proven that you two aren't dating. So how do you 'stop' this? You don't. You can't shove socks in people's mouths, and you can't put duct tape over people's ears. What you can do however, is just continue to do what you've always done and try not to let this rumor get to you. Yes, it is annoying. Yes, you just want to do a smack down on everyone person that goes up to you and ask this question. Alas, you probably won't. So as LonelyHeart mentioned, keep your head on high, and keep an indifference tone to the whole 'ordeal'.
If someone ask that question, my most common answer would be, "Does it look like I have the time to date anyone?" If they persist, just sigh and walk away.
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reader, lonleyheart +, writes (1 December 2006):
 well let's just say i've been where you it can get to you but as long as u don't show i don't bother u and keep your head up and keep posative and get on with your work then no one will bother you well maybe now on then but then your used to it so keep posative and think about things that makes you happy
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