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writes:i'm sick and tired of all the craziness in mexico i want to run to california and meet my guy, i can't stand the drama but i don't want to be a drop out! i'm a senior at college and i don't want to risk all my school years for nothing but i really want to be with him just tu run away from here and never come back what can i do i'm so desperate!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (2 November 2010):
 I didn't mean "you shouldn't waste so much time in school". My brain went in one direction and my typing went in another. I think I meant, you don't want to risk all your school years!
Anyway, yes... from your private message, it sounds like you have a bunch of drama. Sucks. But, you will get a whole new slew of drama when you run away to CA to live with a guy you only know through online dating... it's difficult adjusting to a new relationship. And moving out there to be with him exclusively will put so much pressure on the relationship to succeed!! Get yourself finished with school so you always can rely on yourself. Then you won't need to put up with anyone elses bullshit if you can handle your own business!!
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (2 November 2010):
What is upsetting you so much where you are? Because you're right - you shouldn't waste so much time in school. If you are a senior, then my advice is to simply suck it up and stick it out until you're done. Then you've got the rest of time to run away from Mexico and enjoy the rest of your life!! Just finish school. Until then, spend a little extra time on Skype with your fella, writing letters and getting creative with how you communicate with him and pass the time by. Really focus on your studies and get immersed in your work - let all the drama fade away into the background.
If you drop out now, you will look back and hate yourself for it. Just finish the degree and be on your way!! Good luck, sweetness!
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