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anonymous
writes:Hi,I was involved in a relationship for almost two years. In time I felt like I am not free, felt suffocated and eventually we were seperated. My girlfriend seemed devastated. did not want this seperation etc. I felt sorry and unhappy but was ready to give myself a chance with out her. After 1 month, she started to date with a common friend of ours who happens to live across my apartment and now I have to see her car parked in front of her apartment and this makes me so unhappy and can not get over it. It has been almost 5 months now but still whenever I see her car parked there I can not stop my self from crying. I ask my self if I want her back and my answer is no. So why cant I forget her and go along with my life?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2012): Hard to tell, Have you dated other women? if you havent..well..that's why you havent get over her yet. but if you had and you are sure you dont want her in your future is only your ego talking because you have to see her car across your buliding knowing she is with another man. Be sincere with yourself about if you really want her or not and then go from there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2012): When we deside someone we care about is not right for us we still have feelings and care for them. It is rare when people leave completely not caring for the person anymore. Its still just been five months and it can be difficult being your reminded everyday. The best thing you can do is get yourself out there and have fun with your friends, and dont be affraid to share this with a close friend as it feels good having someone understand along with comfort. Just try to be happy and it will pass and youll meet your next special someone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2012): I think you are just sad because the relationship did not work out. Obviously we all want our relationships to be successful and longlasting, and when they just don't work, it's very sad, even if we are the one who wants to cause the separation. It's not that you miss your ex, it's just that you are sad that the relationship is over.
The best thing to do is get on with your life, socialising, and work, with plenty of enthusiasm, and hopefully very soon you meet someone that will be right for you! All the best!
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