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writes:I'm going to be hanging out for the 2nd time with this girl that I've met. This is will be the 2nd date in my entire life so far, and I'm not sure how to flirt with women. I just talk to them while being nice. I don't want her to put me in the friend zone, so I was wondering what actions to avoid?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2011): I'm the same type of guy you are. I am super nice and treat women with the utmost respect. But I get pulled into the friend zone too often. My best advice is be yourself. Be the nice guy you are, but don't be afraid to make moves. She's going out with you for the 2nd time, so she obviously liked something about you. Joke around with her, tease her. Women love that, but always follow up with something meaningful.Girls do like a sort of bad boy type. Not criminal history bad boy, but a man who isn't afraid to speak his mind or make the first move. You're young, don't be afraid to make mistakes.You will know what feels right, and just act on it! Don't let yourself think, "no, I can't do that. I have to be respectful." if you feel like kissing her, just look in her eyes, tell her how beautiful she is, and slowly move in to kiss her. You don't have to ask for permission. If she wants to, she will let you. If not, she'll shy away. Either way, you made your statement that you want to be more than friends. Good luck!
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reader, lady empress shona  +, writes (13 February 2011):
 My advice is to be yourself but dont be "passive" but be a gentleman but dont try too hard. Use eye contact,make jokes talk about yourself but not too much. Try and make a balance, if she has a story to tell ask her questions and relate things back to you, but not everything. have an interest in her. Follow topics that you may both have in common. You can boast a bit and be a tad cheeky but not offencive,be a tad out spoken (shyness can be awkward.Compliment her and make her feel special. good luck on your second date and be sure nd be yourself, if their is somthing in life worth going for,go for it.
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