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writes:I am only 13 and I am totally into guys. See the thing is I have a gorgeous face, but I am a little chubby, not like extremely fat, but I am like 30lb. overweight but no guys like me. My friend has the most ugly face ever but she has huge boobs and she is really skinny. All the guys just fall all over her and she dangles it right in front of me about how many guys like her. I can`t stand it. Should I still be friends with her and not listen? Or am I better without her?Also, lately I have been having lesbian fantasies with my teachers and girls I've met on a website. Is this normal? Does this mean I`m a lesbian, because I am never atracted to girls at school or anything, only when I am horny. Am I just hormonal, because I've always like guys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2011): Your pretty face will get you further in life than her body will get her. People who respect others look a girl/woman's face when having a conversation with her.
You friend is attracting negative attention. Just ignore her...an maybe try to explain that she's acting a little slutty and the boys will get the wrong idea about her.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (25 September 2011):
 OK lets deal with your friend first. I don't think you should stop being friends with her over this. OK so at the moment she might be getting more male attention than you are and she is soaking it all in and maybe showing off a little bit. But she is still your friend and you shouldn't let jealousy get in the way of that. Off course you are going to be jealous that is completely normal at your age. Plus it makes you feel horrible but believe me your time will come. Don't end a perfectly good friendship over this. If it gets to much for you well then talk to her and tell her how you are feeling.
If you feel that you are over weight well then maybe you could try and eat more healthy and do more exercise. If it makes you feel better about yourself well then why not try and it and see how you feel then. Gain more confidence and people will notice this, especially guys.
As for the lesbian fantasies. Believe me at your age this is completely normal and it does not mean that you are a lesbian. You are going through puberty at your age and your hormones are all over the place. So don't worry if you think about girls when you are horny as it is normal believe me.
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