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writes:ok, i am 12 and i find myself very appealing and so do guys but the thing is i am already thinking about sex. I know i am too young but i think about sex constanly and having a baby and just everything about sex. People say i am an addict to it but I am not. I just like thinking about it. Is it wrong to think about it and at times want to do it? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008): No, it's not wrong. Curiosity is normal. To satisfy the urges, you could masturbate. Girls at that age are WAY too young to be having any kind of foreign sexual contact. Wait until you're older, and the right guy comes along.
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reader, Meh2163  +, writes (10 February 2008):
Ok, its natural to think about things like that at our age, but constantly remind yourself, "im too young" and hopefully that urge or thought will subside.p.s if you still have urges and thoughts about it, masturbation might take your mind off it. i wouldnt know, but possible, lol *shrugs* Good luck!
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reader, polarkite +, writes (8 February 2008):
 No it's not wrong. It's actually pretty natural to start thinking about sex at your age. I started masturbating when I was five! But I didn't first have sex until I was 19.
I'm also thinking maybe, you want to be a grow-up or do grown-up things. So I'd suggest you find a grown-up like hobby or activity to do. For example, you could trade stocks with play-money, read political blogs, study advanced math like number theory, or do a physical activity like yoga.
Actually, my last suggestion, yoga, can for many people, including myself, be a great reliever of sexual frustration.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2008): yes.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 February 2008):
 You cannot help what you want to think.Those thoughts can popped up in your mind but you can either let it pass through or you could let them fester in your mind.
Thinking about them is not wrong. It is wrong only when you want to do it because you are still young and have not come to understand the meaning of it.
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reader, bleh222 +, writes (8 February 2008):
 hey, i was kinda like that when i was 12. so yeahhhh, well it's alright to think about it i guess because you're hormones are coming and you're growing up. but do not have sex yet! trust you will regret it! i've been like that since that age and i'm still a virgin just don't let it take you over. don't make mistakes that young.
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reader, mizz_A  +, writes (8 February 2008):
 Have you actually had sex? If not please listen to me very carefully, I am 17 now and lost my virginity when I was your age and it was the biggest mistake I ever made, I am still kicking myself for it today, it was the stupidest thing I ever did and you will regret it as well, maybe not at first but later on and as for having a baby... come on girl, your still young yourself, could you seriously at your age give a baby the life it deserves?You remind me of me at your age and that's why I want you to take my advice when I say slow down girl yeah (why would he look in the fridge when he already knows what's in it ) meaning if you have it all on offer there's not much left to do is there? Please think about what I have said and just look in the mirror and think "I am better than all of that" Anything else you want to talk about, just private message me okay? xx
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