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Daniel the love doctor
writes:If you want to find the man or woman of your dreams, you have to put yourself in the environment where they work or hang out. For example, if you want to meet a lawyer, go down to your local courthouse during lunch hours- and hang out at the nearest restaurant, coffee shop, or park. Wear casual or professional attire and footwear (ladies, no shoes that you know would hurt your feet, and guys no sneakers). Use positive body language to look approachable. Keep your body relaxed, hold a short gaze (3-5 seconds), smile, and lean slightly in their direction. Ladies, you may not have to take initiative in approaching, but guys, it's a must. Introduce yourself, give a good handshake, express your interest, and ask for her number. So take action to meet the man or woman of your dreams, you may be very pleased with the results. Reply to this Article
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reader, Madalo 1  +, writes (23 August 2011):
Sounds good.
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (22 August 2011):
Daniel the love doctor is verified as being by the original poster of the question That's great to hear Madalo! And hey, at least you took a chance to land your dream guy. Now you wouldn't have regrets of not taking a chance- or thoughts of "what if" as you get older. And this is for those that are afraid to take the initiative...let me use a baseball metaphor...just know that you're not going to hit a homerun everytime you step to the plate.In fact there will be times where you'll strike out. But you should continue to approach with confidence each time you step to the plate. You never know what could happen. And if you strike out, then that's fine. At least you know that you've tried. Just remember it's a numbers game, eventually you'll meet someone that you like- and will like you back.
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reader, Madalo 1 +, writes (22 August 2011):
Hey Daniel, sure i did meet some other fishes in the sea...
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (22 August 2011):
Daniel the love doctor is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBy the way Madalo, I meant to say "things will not progress further than a glance". I believe in my response earlier I put "things will not further than a look". My apologies for my error. :^)
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (22 August 2011):
Daniel the love doctor is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Madalo! Thanks for your comment. I'm sorry you couldn't land your dream guy in college. But there's a lot more that goes along with that opportunity. There's attraction, if the person's single, interested in talking to you, and if they respond positively to your body language. If some of those things are lacking, chances are further than a look.
But I'm sure you realized that there were more fishes in the sea. And hopefully you met some great guys that approached you- and you felt there was mutual attraction and chemistry. :^)
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reader, Madalo 1 +, writes (21 August 2011):
Lol. I wish it always worked. I definitely had a dreamguy in college, made an initiative but it didnt work out.
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (18 August 2011):
Daniel the love doctor is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI wish I could've supplied this advice to you 20 years ago! :^) But thanks Kyle007 for your comment.
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reader, Kyle007 +, writes (18 August 2011):
I wish I had this advice 20 years ago. Its brilliant.
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