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male
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I'm in a bit of a pickle. I have been dating my gf for over five years and we have 2 kids together. I also have a child from a previous relationship and still occassionally have sex with the ex. Last month, I had a one-night-stand with a 23 yr old I met at a bar. Now she's pregnant with my kid. This means trouble because most of my earnings come directly from my gf, who has a well-paid job and who I basically live off. She even helps me support my other kid from the earlier relationship. Now I'm gonna need her help to support this new baby that's on the way. I intend to act as a father to this kid and both I and this 23-yr old pregnant chick hate abortion. How should I break the news to my gf about her increased financial commitment without upsetting her?
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reader, Devilish Angel +, writes (16 September 2008):
 Do you know how pathetic you sound? She's supporting you, the kids you two had together, and your other kid. You cheat on her with your ex and this one nighter and you get the one nighter pregnant. When you break the news about this, I hope she takes the kids and leaves you in the dirt. You make me sick.
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female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (16 September 2008):
 I don't know if he's laughing but I sure am. What a dope. No advice from me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2008): I like the bit about HER increased financial commitment! At what stage did she become responsible for YOUR illegitimate offspring? I also like the bit about your 'earnings' - how exactly do you earn them? I wouldn't mind betting that the remainder of your 'earnings' come from a welfare check.
I think it might be a bit too much to expect her to financially support four of your offspring when only two of them are hers.
You must be having a laugh!
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female
reader, hlskitten  +, writes (16 September 2008):
 Stop being a ponce and stand on your own 2 feet.
Real women like men, not little boys.
She wont support you or your offspring anymore once she finds out about this, unless she is a complete dinlow, in which case she deserves all she gets. Win win situation.
C xxxx
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2008): Will she be upset that you've fathered a costly child but won't mind that you had a one night stand!?!??
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female
reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (15 September 2008):
I think there is no way not to upset her.
You risked her health and her life by going off and cheating and having unprotected sex with random girls in bars. You are cheating on her with your ex.
If you are worried about child support then do yourself a favour and tell your girlfriend the truth. That way she can kick you out and you won't have to worry about child support any more because you'll be living in a hostel.
Get a job and stop being such a moron.
Your girlfriend deserves better.
Good Luck!! xx
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2008): You don't deserve your girlfriends trust money or love! Be honest with her and then leave without causing her any more pain. You are also upsetting your children's lives. You don't even show any remorse or shame in what you have done.
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