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writes:how do I tell my grandpa I'm pregnant.i live with him and iv gotten prego before and he would be really dissappointed when he finds out I am again...i don't knoe how to tell him...what should I do Reply to this Question
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reader, deirdre  +, writes (25 February 2009):
why didnt you think of this before you got pregnant? I understand they do have birth control in your country
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (25 February 2009):
 You've had some great advise here.
Can I suggest one thing though for the future! If you are incapable of using a condom, don't have sex! There simple, no sex no more babies!
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (25 February 2009):
 Well, either you tell him or he notices on his own in a few months.
Just sit him down, explain how scared you are about this, and that you really need his support right now. Acknowledge that you let him down and come off as humble. He has every right to be upset, but if you are calm about it, he will be calm too.
Use protection next time so there isn't a third baby. I know they're cute, but I'm sure you're aware by now how much work they really are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): Well if you made a mistake you made a mistake. Be an adult and own up to it. Maybe being pregnant twice and having to disappoint your grandfather like this will finally be enough for you to TAKE PRECAUTIONS next time. It's easy to get hold of the pill and condoms, and easier to abstain.
I don't know how far you are, but please consider an abortion. Most people think it's an awful thing to suggest, but this is an advice site, and I'm anonymous, and I honestly think that's good advice.
Go to the clinic, let them give you advice, and please PLEASE get on the pill, the injection, anything if you aren't already. You are so young and to have a child already is so sad. I think it's time you got a hold of your life and start making some good decisions for yourself - especially since it involves others now!
I know that's harsh, but please, consider an abortion and go on BIRTH CONTROL!!
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reader, Confined +, writes (25 February 2009):
He should not be dissipionted your old enough to have a baby but grandpas are kinda like that but no matter what he should be happy for you and support you oh and for everybody who has a baby I always say jeremy for a boy and daina for a girl
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