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writes:I've been with my GF for several years. how can I get her to flirt, be coy or evasive, and make me work for her? I've secretly researched how to make myself sexier and it definitely works on her. Currently, I can get any sex act I want at the drop of a hat (which isn't so bad), but it sure is fun to flirt with women I encounter. I have a woman-attracting skill-set that is getting rusty and is in need of some use. I'd love for her to secretly read-up on enticing, hard-to-get behavior. She is eager to please, but sensitive to criticism. What can I say to her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): Some girls don't like to play games and are straight to the point. My ex boyfriend recently told me that Men like a challenge like I wasn't challenging enough for him. What can I say? I don't like to play games, I'm straight to the point, and I'm honest about what I want and how I feel. I'm just being myself. She's not one of your buddies or your job so why do you feel like you have to work so hard for her. Stop looking at her like an accomplishment and treat her like a person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): im not sure if your using the right terms... because when a woman is playing games she generally "is playing games"... ever heard of pandora's box?
i think the best bet would be to tell her that you want to try new things, show her what you've been looking at and what you want her to look at. I wouldn't on the other hand tell her about flurting with other females. I know my bf does it and he's quit good. But, both he and i know that i would break his legs if anything else occured. I am not so sure she would be okay with it is all.
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (15 December 2009):
 Well you could just ask her to do it...kinda role play what you want, but to be honest with your new found animal magnetism and woman attracting skills making you all flirty with other gals...well your woman might really play hard to get...she might kick your butt to the kerb and dissapear completely!!!
Speak to your woman and go easy tiger!!!
AE x
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