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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and half and love him to bits but there is just one thing getting me down. He is still living at home with his parents and siblings and when I go to his house we have no alone time and have to do everything with the whole family. It is of course lovely at times and being in their home I understand we should include everyone but sometimes I just want to watch a film with him and then his sister or niece or mum will come in and he will stop what we're doing to accomodate them. When he is at my house my mum will give us space to do what we would like to do. If he is at my house his mum will call him constantly and ask where he is, what time he's coming home. I just find this difficult as we never get time just for ourselves. I thought when I started a relationship with him that things would be different as he is 25 and that we would have more of a mature relationship. I've tried talking to him about it but he just laughs.. I don't know what to do, I don't want to avoid going to his house.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2014): To me it doesn't sound like he is taking your concern seriously so you need to be more firm when talking to him about the issue. Does he have a job or anything, or does he just freeload? Is he in college?
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (9 November 2014):
 Perhaps they don't want to allow privacy for obvious reasons. I mean if you're not married why provide the environment for things of a sexual nature to be allowed. Why don't you consider getting married and get a place of your own?
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