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writes: hi...i have a really weid question..my boyfreind had been going though sum hard times and he wants a shoulder to lean on and i wanna be that shouldr yet dun't know how..i don't know what to say. I mean he made those choices and now he has to live with the consquences right. I'm afarid if i don't give him support he will sreach for it somwehere else, mainly his ex-girlfreind.
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (19 April 2006):
 Hiya,
Sometimes its not what you say but its all about what you do and just listerning. People dont always want advice; sometimes they just want to vent their emotions. While it is true he made those choices and he does have to accept the consequences that doesnt mean he has to do so alone.
If you cant find anything to say then just listern attentively and maybe reassure him of your feelings. Tell him you will always be there for him to offer some support. That will mean alot to him and hopefully provide him with the boost he needs. Hope that helps.
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