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writes:I'm 19 I am attracted almost exclusively to older women. And by older, I mean at least 55 and up. But I'm scared to talk to them cause why would they want to date someone younger?How can I find senior women and make them attracted to me? Reply to this Question
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reader, Aunty Em  +, writes (1 September 2008):
 You'd be surprised at the amount of older women who would love a young one like you. Just go for it, you won't know unless you find out!
Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2008): Attraction has two parts: Looks and Personality. When it comes to looks, either they like yours or they don't. Some will like your looks and some won't. You can change/improve but there's no guarantee you will become attractive to a certain person. Approach and start flirting with those women who keeps eye contact with you.Personality wise, there aren't any guarantees here either. Is talking to each other easy and flowing? Does she get your sense of humor. This is must have for me.Good luck!
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (28 August 2008):
 honestly i think we all have our turn ons and you shouldnt be condemed for yours. Your an adult they are adults. DONE
Prehaps go places they enjoy. Being much younger i have no idea, but look around.
Im sure an older woman would love a younger man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2008): i am guessing the women you are attracted to are even older than your own mum, how would you feel if she dated someone your age or younger, most women in their 50s will have grown children of their own possibly grandchildren it would be hard to bring home a teenager and introduce him to a ready made family as the new partner, also for older an older woman it tends to feel a bit perverted to be with someone so young, perhaps you are drawn the security of a ready made home with an established woman but remember in 5 years she will be collecting her pension, and sad to say old age can be unkind to us do you want to end up as a carer, sometimes our fantasies are best left just as fantasies, one day the right girl willbe along
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reader, happy24birthday +, writes (27 August 2008):
 I think a beauty shope like someone else mentioned is a good place. You may also try the library. Being 40 myself and not looking forward to getting any older, as the offers are few and far between, I would LOVE for a 19 year old to enter my world. Your obstacle is going to be getting an older woman to believe you genuinely are attracted to her. Honesty should work well, as this is appreciated more the older you get.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (27 August 2008):
Go and get a job somewhere they hang out.
Not to stereotype but at a hairdressers or a bingo hall. Then flirt away.
They will probably think you are just being charming but you can always offer to walk one of them home or just ask them out if you are getting a vibe off one of them.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, abbeymom  +, writes (27 August 2008):
 You can't. You also shouldn't. You are young and you do not have the maturity to be in a relationship with a woman who is 55 years old. Even if you make a woman feel good by being yourself and friendly, there will always be obstacles in the way when dating someone whose ohhh 35 or so years your senior.
Go see a counselor about your feelings. Try to figure out why you cannot relate to women your own age or even ten years older which is fine.
As Freud would say. "Tell me about your mother."
It is unnatural and would be strange going to bed with someone who is the same age as your grandchild. True intimacy would be hard to reach and a battle to deal with.
Good luck.
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