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How can I determine if he still loves me? Or confirm it's over?

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Question - (25 April 2015) 4 Answers - (Newest, 1 May 2015)
A male Spain age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend is not talking to me any more !

we started this relationship 2 months ago, we loved each other ! i am sure about my feelings and i was sure about his feelings , but since last week everything has changed ! i don't know why, for no reasons ! he disappeared ! and he refuses to see and to explain why?

His behavior has changed ! i have not done any bad thing for him !

i text him but he is too slow in responding, he keeps telling me that he is busy and he doesn't have a time to meet me !

has he stopped loving me ? why ?

I asked him 2 days ago if you do still love me ? he said yes but his actions say its over !

how to know if he still love me? Although i have my own assumptions that he does not, but how to get him to confirm this !

he brought me to life and then he abandoned me , i feel that he played in my emotions

i can't accept it is over !

please help !

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2015):

So maybe you should just leave him alone for a while. I'm not trying to be mean but you are kinda nagging him. Maybe he just needs time and he did say he still loves you so just be patient and let him come to you. I like to allows give people the benefit of the dualt. I'm pretty sure he still loves you and don't listen ?? to all these haters

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (26 April 2015):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntHe's giving you all the message you need, for you to determine that the budding "relationship" has run its course, and it's time for you to move on.....

Good luck...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2015):

He brought you to life and then abandoned you? Sounds a little dramatic. Stop contacting him as hard as it is. If he is busy as he says he will contact you. Part of the dating process is to find out if the two of you are compatible, if you aren't right about two months is where it might end. It is not personal it is part of the process of finding a partner. It sucks I know.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2015):

Really, you need to sit down and actually have a face to face conversation about this, he should really make the time to talk to you and make time for you, in my experience being told they have no time is an easy excuse to let you down and not upset that person, try meeting him for dinner or maybe a coffee and talk about your emotions for each other

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