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writes: I have been seeing this guy for 4 months. Everything was going so great. Just a couple of weeks ago he was talking about where things were headed, meaning a relationship. He talked about being in love and things were going that way very fast, etc. He also has mentioned he is a little scared. Now it's been a week and I haven't heard a word from him. I don't know what to think. I called him 5 days ago and left a polite message for him to call and still nothing. How can he just go from hot to cold? I have decided to give him his space? What do you think he's thinking? Any advice would be helpful. Thank you! I'm thinking he's either scared or found someone else. Not knowing is driving me crazy. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I did tell him I only wanted to see him and no one else. I completely opened up to him. How can I talk to him when I haven't heard anything from him. He hasn't returned my call and I don't want to be pushy. thanks for the replies.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2009): Maybe he is getting cold feet? Maybe he is a bit afraid of committing himself as he has been hurt badly in the past??? Maybe he didnt get the kind of response from you he was hoping to get when he opened up and discussed where things were headed.
You need to sit down with this man and talk to him, find out what is really going on. Maybe you need to tell him just how he fits into your life???
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reader, crimson_kiss  +, writes (3 April 2009):
 When he talked about his feelings in reference to the relationship and where it was heading, what did you say back to him? That makes all the difference in the world! If you did not respond positively to it, he took it as rejection and moved on. He may not be returning your call because he is hurting right now, knowing he wants more and you do not. I can only assume at this point. The key here is your reaction to him, that should tell you everything.
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