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writes:I finally got to go on the date with the guy I like. I think I bored him a bit but otherwise, it went well and we really clicked, (in my opinion.) He held my hand, hugged me, acted really sweet. But introduced me as a friend. I guess that was understandable since we weren't exactly "dating" yet, even though I felt a little hurt. Then when he drove me home, gave me a tight hug. He texted me a little bit after and we talked for a bit. He called later that night but things got a bit awkward since he was tired and I didn't have much to say. We ended up falling asleep with both our phones on. The next day, I only got a text and two missed calls since I couldn't pick up. Then the next day, i had to text HIM first, which I thought was strange since he was always one to text or call first. He wouldn't have texted me at ALL that day if I hadn't been the first one. He didn't call later that night either which was also strange. And then today, I haven't received anything from him at all. He usually would either call early in the morning at 8am and then would call late at night like around 10-11pm.Question is, did I do something wrong on the date, or is he losing interest or what? Maybe he needs time?
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reader, Duckyhelp  +, writes (24 December 2009):
 Its kind of a boy thing. My ex was the same. Chances are he is just busy. Or doesnt want to text/call. Some guys dont like texting. Its just what their like. I wouldnt panic, i suggest trying ur best not to contact him if him texting first matters so much. Which to be fair, matters to me too :P
So yeah, just not contact him, and he will in time miss and wonder why u hadnt contacted him.
Hope i was useful :)
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