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He's always too busy for me. What should I do?

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Question - (8 May 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 May 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

hi i am 13 and i dont know where i stand wiv my boyfriend. he doesnt go to the same school, i met him at the park and we both go there every week. recently i keep phoning him and he always says he is busy, then i say what about sunday? monday, tuesday? and he says he's too busy to meet up. is he hinting that he doesnt want to go out wiv me anymore? and he is just to0o embarressed to dump me? whats going on? i dont wanna ask him cos i dont want him to dump me :(

i really like him. he cant txt me cos he dont have a mobile so he cant dump me that way.

thanks for the advise everyone. (we both havent been to the park in a while cos he says he is busy).

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A female reader, persepheth +, writes (9 May 2006):

I think you should dump him first!

You dont want to see someone who hasn't got time for you, do you?

Think you could have a boyfriend who wants to spend time with you, and who wants to make you feel special. You'll not get this from that guy so end it before he does.

Good luck though x

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A female reader, chav123 +, writes (9 May 2006):

hi there do you not think he could be two timing you with another lass cause thats what lads say there two busy but instead hes with another lass do you not think. do you even no were he lives cause if you dont girl I dont even think theres any point in going out with him plz take my advise I am not being evil I am just saying that he could be doing this

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2006):

Maybe he is really busy. But the best thing you can do is stop contacting him because boys will always do the chasing if they are interested. If he doesnt get in touch, you are better off without him.

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A female reader, hiddenspace United Kingdom +, writes (8 May 2006):

hiddenspace agony auntI think you should ask him to go the park because you need to talk about something important, and if he says he's busy, just tell him outright that you're sick of him messing around. Tell him that he either wants to be with your or he doesn't, and he can't be kind of in the middle. I know it's heart breaking but it's just more destructive for you not too. You don't want him to dump you but you aren't really acting like a couple, if you never meet up or talk face to face.

Hope this helps

hiddenspace

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