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writes:hmm... were to start, well ive been with my girlfriend for 15 months now,we have had sex but never oral, all of a sudden she comes out with she wants to give me a blowjob but she is scared, i can read her like a book and what she means is she wants to do it but is shy,now of course i want it ans would be willing to wait. but how do i help her get passed the shyness that is learking inside of her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2010): I would make her laugh it off by being a silly mofo. I.e " I'm glad you brought this up since I have a very, very dangerous penis, yes, yes I know it looks harmless and cute but it is in fact addictive and you should know what you are getting into here"
Or if her fear seems to be connected to seeing her you could ask her to blindfold you.
She could be worried about if she is "good" or not. In that case lead her through it and encourage her. You may want to show her how you stroke it to give her an idea of what you are into.
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reader, lainajade  +, writes (12 July 2010):
 I think it's all a matter of her being comfortable around you. And in order for that to happen, i would say you guys need to talk about it. Ask her what shes scared about, get inside her mind. I bet what she needs most now is reassurance. And for you to be able to give her that reassurance, you need to know exactly what she is thinking. Yes you know she is shy, but what is causing her to feel that shyness? Embarrassment? You just need to communicate. Talking is the key to every relationship! Good luck.
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