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writes:Well, I recently posted up stuff about my x and i... WELLLL... We ended up sort of working things out and now out of random we got into one little fight and now he is dating some 16 year old? OUT OF RANDOM!!!! That day he asked her out he was texting me saying he loves me and always will and will always be here for me..? He saying that she knows how to treat him and listen to him and all that bullsh*t apparently i never did that? which is such crap... Anyways now he is crying that he loves me and he wants me back but isnt sure what to do with the girl he is dating now? Idk what to do, he has never cried like this before to me and ive seen him cry... Idk what i should even consider with him, nothing? He did screw me over for this girl but like that day he realized it, but still is with her.. his parents are getting involved again so i think it has to do with them, he wont really tell me.. HHEELLPPP MEE PLEASEE!! im lost AGAIN
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (9 June 2008):
 This guy sounds like he really doesnt know what he wants, and if he is trying to get you back while being with his girlfriend, well that tells me that he wants his bread buttered on both sides! Rather move on with your life and forget him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2008): He wants you back but isn't sure what to do with this other girl? That's BS. If he wanted you and only you back so bad, he would break up with the other girl and be all yours. He's not stupid. He's trying to play you both. He thinks there is a chance that you might go back with him even though he "doesn't know what to do about this other girl." He knows EXACTLY what he should do. He is just trying to see if you will fall for his line so that he can date the both of you at the same time.
Don't be naive. Tell him that you are not interested. And move on...
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (9 June 2008):
 Really? You would sell your dignity for a guy who doesn't know what he wants, let's his parents make his decisions and most of all, treats you like crap? Which bulls**t are you swallowing now? The stuff You want to believe, or the stuff HE wants you to believe?
After whining on your shoulder, he is STILL with Her. Actions speak LOUDER than really empty words.
Time to cut loose and find someone who treats you the way that you want to be treated in a relationship. You are just breaking your own heart by sticking around for this BS.
BTW, the way that you KNOW that a guy is absolutely Ga-Ga over you is the day that he puts you above and before everyone else in his life. If he is letting his parents call the shots, he still has a lot of growing up to do and he is not yet independant. Telling you that she does this and that and dangling getting back together as a possibility is just being manipulative. Lotusmama88 was right when she suggested you were being played like a puppet, but people can only take advantage of you if you let them. Find someone who is worthy of your trust and affection, Hun.
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (9 June 2008):
 I dunno what you posted about before, but my thoughts on this are: Seems he is going through some emotional struggle, and he is taking everyone down with him. If I were you, I'd give him the space he needs to figure out exactly what he wants from life, before he makes you as miserable as he is. Simple as that. Guys cry all the time, dont go believing that he is all tore up about you, or his situation. He's lost. He's confused, and he is stringing you and this girl along. Dont let him play you like a puppet. Good luck, keep your back bone.
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reader, Landie +, writes (9 June 2008):
 Get rid of this guy. He is just playing you and he is going to carry on doing it to get a reaction out of you.
Any guy who will leave you for a another girl at the drop of a hot clearly does not love you.
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