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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I met this guy a couple months ago. My friend liked him first because she just broke up with her bf, but he never returned her calls. My gals and his guys went on a trip and ever since then, we've talked everyday...either conversing through text or actually on the phone. He took me to dinner then and took me to his house to introduce me to his parents and give me a couple presents he bought last weekend. But I'm getting the total 'friend' vibe. He tells me he doesn't want a girlfriend because he has so many plans that there isn't a girl who will let him finish those plans. and his last long term gf cheated on him. But then again says he misses aspects of being in a relationship. Friends say I'm just being oblivious because the sweet things he does shows he's interested, but I just think he's a great guy in general. Or maybe I'm just afraid of liking him more than he likes me? How do I know if he wants to pursue anything?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2007): Well, it could be he isnt prepared for GF. But certainly he Likes you Otherwise why bying u all this presents and introducing to ur parents. Maybe he isnt in that period and really doesnt want a gf.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2007): I guy who wants you is not going to tell you that he isn't interested in having a girlfriend. Guys are very blunt and they don't play games. So take what he said seriously and not just with a grain of salt.
So let's recap what he said. He doesn't want a girlfriend, for this or that reason. So don't just remember him saying how he misses aspects of a relationshp. Just remember what he said: HE DOES NOT WANT A GIRLFRIEND.
He is nice to you because you are a girl and he probably wouldn't mind having sex with you. But he does not want a girlfriend.
If you want me to get more technical about men I can. Usually when a guy says that he does not want a girlfriend, it usually just means that he does not want YOU as a girlfriend. In other words, he is totally capable of falling inlove with a girl. It's just not you. I am only throwing this out just in case you see him with a girlfriend only a couple of months down the road.
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