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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have this friend, we both want to be more than friends but we are taking it slowly, starting as friends and seeing if anything develops. there are two reasons for this 1) he is getting over a marriage breakup (6 months ago) and 2) i am already married. I am unhappy in the marriage and am going to leave and i have told my friend. He said he did not want to break my family up but i told him I have been unhappy anyway and would be leaving for ME not him. we spent a whole week constantly texting each other and a couple of phone calls and online chats. He has been very upset and depressed about the way his life has turned out and I've been a friend to him. But he recently told me he had feelings for his ex (understandable i guess) but there is no way back and that he wanted me. He also told me he is afraid of the future because its so unpredictable. Now the texts and online chats have suddenly stopped, I've texted him to say I'm worried about him but Nothing, he has'nt been online for days and I'm afraid to ring him in case he needs space but I dont know whats going on, he is killing me, I need some help.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (11 August 2009):
 Take care of your own marriage situation first. You have other fish to fry at this point in time, leave him alone. Do things the right way so you can look yourself in the mirror without cringing.
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