He partied with his ex while I was pregnant, and I can't seem to move past this betrayal

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So when me and my fiance got together, we mutually agreed that maintaining contact with exes was a dealbreaker. We were very happy, and I fell pregnant with our son, who is now three. However, when I was 12 weeks pregnant, I went on a holiday with my mom, and during this time, he went out partying with his ex! And I only found out because of facebook pictures. When I confronted him he blamed it all on his friend who was adamant they went to the club she was in and apparantly didn't know she would be there, but she came up to them and he didnt want to be rude. I dont buy it at all. I believe he had been in contact with her and arranged to party with her while I was convieniently on holiday. I almost left him over it. I agreed to stay, but to be truthful Ive never really moved past it. I am still silently seething. The thought of her anywhere near him makes me sick. I want to have it out with him, but I can see that rehashing it now will do no good. But our wedding is in September, and I need to let this anger go. Does anyone have any suggestions for letting go of anger?

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