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36-40,
anonymous
writes:im really confused. i really like this guy called **** from my part time job but hes giving me really mixed messages as to how he feels back. when everyone from work goes out for a few drinks hes really flirty with me, and if we go round someones house to watch films, we always end up cuddling on the sofa and he kisses me on the forehead when he leaves and things like that. one of our mutual friends knows i like him and told him when they went out drinking but he's never mentioned to me that he knows. and then the other day we were at a pub and he kept asking me if i liked anyone from work but i was too embarrassed to say so said no. last night we were meant to be going out with people from work but he had work early in the morning so i said he could stay in my spare bedroom. however no one could afford to go out in the end so i went to a mutual friends house to watch some films. He then texted me asking if anyone was going out so i text back saying no. he then text me saying "is that bed still on offer cz we could get a few drinks and snuggle up on the sofa with a dvd" and i said "im at our friends house so why dont u come over too?" but he said "nahh its ok i'll just get an early night before work" and things like thati text him today and he replied but was just being normal with me, and was actually a little off with me although i may just be being paranoid. do u think hes interested?
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reader, huneygyrl  +, writes (8 October 2007):
 I think he does like you. It sucks he giving you mixed signals. The only way you will find out is if you ask him.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (8 October 2007):
Yes, he is interested in you. Keep at it and he'll soon be asking you out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007): of course! he loves you and isn't in it just for the sex by the sounds of it. if you like him, go for it!
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reader, rachy-baby-helps +, writes (8 October 2007):
 YES! I would say he is very interested. Considering the fact that when you asked him over to your mates he said no, obviously shows you that he just wants to spend time with you. He still wanted to see you even though no one was goin out.
Ask yourself if you have ever seen him acting this way towards anyone else. If not, then you are getting the special treatment and my advice is to make a move.
Also if he doesn't shy away when there are others around, and he still cuddles up and kisses you on the forehead, this shows he wants people to know his feelings for you. But that you are the only one who cannot see it.
The probable reason for him being 'off' is because he thought he was going to get some time alone with you, but didn't. Let him know you like him, beter still tell him there is someone at work you like, keeping eye contact and flirting with him, he should get the hint.
Good Luck
Hope this helps :-)
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