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He has a gf but I love him! How do I deal with this?

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Question - (9 August 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 August 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *perfectXimperfectionX writes:

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i have loved this boy for ages now. but he has a girlfriend. the girlfriend is totally in love with him but she doesnt treat him good. me and him always flirt with each other and i like it because i know what ever happens it wont get out and we are still friends. but the girlfriend is getting jealouse.

what should i do? i love him with all my life but i dont want to be the other woman. i cant leave him cuz that would kill me.

can anyone help me with this?

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (9 August 2009):

Fairy_Lu agony auntYour not going to like my answer, but leave this guy alone he has a girlfriend if he was unhappy or wanted to be with you then he would be with you. He has a girlfriend and its not you, you have to realise this and move on dont waste your feelings on someone you cant/dont have because in the end the only one who will get hurt is you! Find someone who will love you fully and completly dont waste your time on a guy who has a girlfried and flirts with you, your wasting your time despite what he may tell you

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A female reader, busy04 United States +, writes (9 August 2009):

busy04 agony auntDon't be naive hun, leave the man alone. Whether his girlfriend treats him right or not should be none of your concern, that's their relationship, not yours. And if he liked you the same way you like him: then he would be with you, but he's not so guess what? You need to walk away, I know it's easier said than done, but it CAN be done! And exactly what do you mean "i can't leave him cause that would kill me"? Are you with him already or not?

The only help you need is this: leave him be, there are other men, single men in the world out there that you can have. Move on!

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