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female
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30-35,
*ollette2010
writes: there is this boy, he is amazing and i think i'm in love with him but the only trouble is he's in love with his ex yet he still leads me on and flirts with me, i really don't know what to do...
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (24 January 2012):
I wouldn't flirt back. He still loves his ex, but wants to feel "wanted" so he flirts with you.
Anyone who is still in love with an ex, is not BF/GF material til til are over that ex.
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female
reader, KittieS +, writes (23 January 2012):
I'm sorry but guys do this, there still in love with the ex but miss the female companionship - harsh but true save yourself the heartache and move on.
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female
reader, Moo's Mum +, writes (23 January 2012):
Tell him you are not interested in him until he sorts out his feelings for his ex and gets over her.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2012): I think you need to talk to him about it. Tell him that he can't keep flirting with you and leading you on if he'd rather be with someone else. Or even tell him how you feel. You never know, he may want to be with you instead. If he decides to pursue things with his ex then try and accept it, but listen to his side. Either way he has to make a decision, it's you or her, he can't have his cake and eat it too. It's unfair if he's making you feel like this and I hope everything works out!
Good luck!
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reader, LovelessAct1 +, writes (23 January 2012):
If he's still not over his ex, this is no time for him to be in a relationship and you'd likely be leading yourself to get hurt later. Don't take the chance; wait until you know he has moved on before doing anything about your feelings.
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