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He flirts with me, but why doesn't he really mean what he says?

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Question - (11 March 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 May 2005)
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Dear Cupid,

There is this guy at my school. He is fourteen and in the eighth grade, and I am thirteen and in the seventh grade. We hang out with the same crowd at school and attend the same gymnastics class. We get along great,and he flirts with me a lot.

However,he has said that he only likes me as a friend...

even though I like him as more.

I REALLY like this guy, and like I said, he flirts with me a lot and does things like put his arm around me and blow into my ear and calls me his 'sweet baby girl'.

Is there any way that I can make him really MEAN the things he says? Any help would be REALLY appreciated.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2005):

Hiya I understand you completely. The same thing has happened and happening at the moment to me. I am only 15 but I still believe that love can be at any age.

The thing is, you have to make it very clear you like him. The best way is to tell him. I mean I used to flirt all the time with my one and he still didn't realise until I told him, but then also the best thing to do is to expect the worst so if he does say no it won't hurt as much, as you will be prepared for it.

I think you could also ask your mates to find out if he likes you or if you're brave enough and can trust his mates, why not ask them? But at the end of the day everyne flirts with everyone. It's like a game, the more you practise the better you get and flirting is a fun way getting to know someone.

If he turns round and says he don't like you then just move on and say it's not meant to be and that there is someone out there for you but you haven't found him yet. You are still very young so you have plenty of time to get with boys.

Anyway good luck, hope it works out for you, TFX XXX

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