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51-59,
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writes:HiI've got a problem. I really love my boyfriend who i've been dating for around 5 months.I made the mistake of telling him about my sexual past, including a series of one nite stands which he finds repulsive because he has high morals. He would never sleep with anyone until he was sure he had feelings for them. I'm different in that i see sex as sex... just the next step from kissing a guy.He can't get beyond the fact that i gave myself away so cheaply. I want him to get over this so much, that i've also lied to him about the number of one night stands and fear that if i told him the real number, he'd leave me.I can't lose him.
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reader, maxsteel86 +, writes (9 February 2007):
 You see sex as just sex and your guy doesn't. In that case, maybe he feels that its the same with him. In the end, if two people have such different outlooks, it will definitely lead to unsolvable problems if one cant forgive the other. Try talking to your partner and when the chance comes around, ask him what he wants to do about it cos you cant change the past. Dont say it like in an angry way or anything, just remind him that the next step is his to take
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reader, here_2_help +, writes (9 February 2007):
 tell him it was the past and it never ment anything to you and i know how you feel i was like you once the i just turned my life aroun and told my self i mean more then that. you can still change sex is a way of bringing to ppl who love each other closer and it is spposed to be somthing grate. this guy needs to know you like him and the sex is not just sex but is a way you are one.hope this helps xx
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