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Had a strange dream after we got back together

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Question - (22 March 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 25 March 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I had a boyfriend two years ago 2009. We had a good relatioship and we were happily inlove with each other. But after 5 months of our relationship I left and we decided to have a long distance relationship. We were in long distance relationship for 10 months and then we broke up on October of 2010. During the times that we were broken up we still message each other that we still love each other. So last 19th of March 2011 we got back together.

Last night though after few days of getting back with him I dreamed of him. In my dream there's this one girl/lady who was his nanny/helper in my dream, who told me that it's really bad for me to love him. And in my dream my boyfriend was really mad at me when I came to visit him in his house.

I don't know if this means anything? Help please!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2011):

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Thank you so much for your response :) It was really helpful :)

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A female reader, angelDlite United Kingdom +, writes (24 March 2011):

angelDlite agony aunti see. it seems like the girl/lady/nanny/helper character in your dream is another part of your mind/personality/consciousness and it is the part of you that gives you doubts about him, even though you say (and you want to be) happy with him. you have trust issues obviously because of what happened last time, you are wise to be cautious

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2011):

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I feel really happy cause we're back with each other. I really love him and I could see him in my future. It was his idea to get back. When we were still broken up, there were a lot of times that we're gonna sent back messages saying we still love each other. But he talked to me last weekend saying he tried moving on and dating girls but he said he can't move on and he really wanted to be with me. He even ask me to marry him??? I was really happy and I got motivated on a lot of things after we got back together.

Yes we are still in a long distance relationship. We broke up before because he started lying to me. And he confessed that he was flirting a lot with girls. I'm really scared that the same thing that happened before might happen again. We tried to get back together couple of weeks after we broke up but it wasn't just working for us.

Thank's so much for your answer :)

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A female reader, angelDlite United Kingdom +, writes (23 March 2011):

angelDlite agony aunthi

how do you feel in your waking life about being back with him? whose idea was it to get back with him? yours or his? do you have doubts that he is happy about being back together and do you yourself feel like it is a mistake?

so are you still long distance? why exactly did you break up last time and are you worried that the same thing will happen again? (if the circumstances/problem/situation has not changed)

in short - i think that you are worried that being back with him is not a good idea and/or you are worried that HE is not happy with it. so look at the situation. this is what your dream is telling you to do.

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