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The first date seemed wonderful, but now he's gone to ground. What do I do?

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Question - (28 February 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 2 March 2005)
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I recently met a guy, we had a wonderful first date. We met up again 2 days later. We wasnt well and so went home early. He told me he was away for the weekend and it would be a mad one. He left, giving me a lovely kiss and planning to meet up 4 days later when he was back. he said 'I'll call you tommorrow'. He didnt, i texted him the following eve and he replied. I then left it and two days later am still waiting. I texted him today and asked If i had done something wrong. Still nothing. He is a friend of my mates husband and had seemed keen to them. likes me alot. Why hasnt he called, what should i do. We were due to meet tomorrow night and he is away again from the day after for a week. Whats my next move?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2005):

Trust me on this, no move is a good move. There's no easy way to say it, he just isn't interested. This has happened to me just recently in fact. I can understand where you are coming from, you get all the right signals on the date and you get on really well, so you naturally think there will be a second date. I don't know why guys do this, but it seems that avoidance is their answer to everything. If he hasn't bothered to get in touch with you by now, he isn't going to. Move on to a guy with better manners, you deserve it.

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