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30-35,
*ddi
writes:Hello Everyone! How are you all doing? I have a bit of a dilemma. It may seem a bit juvenile but I'm really frustrated and irked by it. Anyway I have a major crush on this boy. He's rather cute and we are both in the same grade (9th) and share a few classes together. Anyhow, I know he likes me (or at least he did) because one of his friends told me so, he practically yelled it at me. My first question is; why would he ask one of his friend to do that? That incident happened months ago.My second question is, Is he interested? At first he use to stare at me quite often but lately he doesn't seem interested. He seems almost scared to talk to me and is rather aloof. Around me he's quiet but with his friends he's a bit of a bully. Why does he behave this way? Does he like me or not or is this wishful thinking on my part? Please help. Feel free to message me and comment. I would greatly appreciate it. =-)
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reader, yukiakashi  +, writes (1 September 2008):
 i'm in your same position. Hi-5. I have totally 0 advice but i just wanna assure you that there are other ppl experiencing it and you are not alone
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): His friends are showing MAJOR signs... maybe ask one of them if he still likes you . If they say yes go for it !!!
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reader, Addi +, writes (4 April 2008):
Addi is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for answering. I appreciate it. The only thing is there is no way he could be using me considering we have never really had a conversation/don't really know one another. Really the only time he talked to me was when he asked me for a pen and then a few weeks later when he asked me how my basketball game went. I really like this guy but I just don't know if he still likes me. Im worried if i go up and ask him that he will reject me and i will make a fool out of myself.I get really shy around him and i mix my words up and start to clam up when really im a pretty outgoing person and am nice to everyone..
Im confused, his attitude has changed completely he use to stare at me quite a bit and i would catch him and then he would quickly look away. And his friends would always smile at him when i came around. Its weird because he can talk to other girls but cant talk to me. I just wish i could look into a magic ball and find out what the truth is regarding me and him
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): he may have asked his friends to did that for him because he was nervous about teling you . And maybe he didn't even ask them to! he may have just told them and they felt the need to tell you . it sounds like he likes you and is just covering up now because he thinks you don't feel the same . And all guys behave this way. It's somthing in their brains that us girls don't quite get I guess... the want to seem cool and they come off like a jerk. tell him you like him and see what happens :)
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reader, Fasion victims  +, writes (4 April 2008):
 hello addi
dont worry we have been in your postion before. To anserw your first question is he proberly likes you but wants you to tell his friend that you like him before he makes a move. We dont think its wishfull thinking but perhaps be carefull that hes not taking advantage of you. I fhe keeps looking at you it could mean he finds somthing intresting in you and he is fasinated by this. He acts like a bully like other guys just to get your attention they think being mean is going to attract you to them get you to notice them. i would definutly say he is intressted in you in someway of form.
tell us how things go
good luck
lots of love
fasion victims
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