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Do I have a chance with my text-message-guy?

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Question - (4 July 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 July 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

well, i have a crush on a senior in college. at first i SMS him anonymously in september 2004 but later i introduced myself by showing my picture in Friendster. i think it went quite well. when i first SMS him, he already had a girlfriend. then, we were in the same project but we never had any decent conversation. we SMS about 8 months then. during the holiday in june 2005, he went out with someone i know.not really a friend. but i know her. so, i didn't sms him for almost a year. although, he gave me his new number.he broke up with her somewhere in february this year. early may 2006, i lost my phone. i made an announcement in Friendster asking my friend to give me their number. he responded to that n gave his number. he asked me how am I doing. i told him i'm working part time in a bookstore in a shopping centre. about a month after that,one day he SMS me and told me that he's in the bookstore. i didn't bring my mobile. so, when i read the message, he already left. i'm so frustrated at that time. but , guess what, a week after that, he's there again. luckily this time, i'm about to start work when he SMS telling me that he's in the shopping center because of work. so, we met at coffee bean. that was the first time ever I talk to him. and surprisingly, it was so easy. like we've known each other forever. i was very surprised because all this time, we just SMS. never talk. not even talking on the phone.too bad i had to cut it short because i have to rush to work. SO, please tell me, do you think i have the chance with him?

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A female reader, Phoebe Halliwell United Kingdom +, writes (4 July 2006):

Phoebe Halliwell agony auntHey,

well he wants to know you. He gave up his free time to see you. I'd say go for it, you like him, it's obvious he likes you. (And even more obvious if he payed for your coffee!)

How old are you? Have you known him for long?

I'd just meet him again - and again - and again abnd maybe you could meet him when you're not dressed in your work clothes. Maybe ask him casually if he wants to meet for a drink somewhere or at a club?

Subtle little hints do the trick everytime. Take baby steps and who knows what could happen?

Hope all goes well and that this really helped!

Phoebe

xxx

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