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writes:i fell in love with my teacher last year and Ihonestly didnt want to stop these feelings whatsoever but i decided i had to let go for summer otherwise i would have a horrible summer and a depressing year when he wasnt my teacher again. but then he became my teacher again after i'd let go and he said something that hurt me and i fell out with him. he then changed to not being my teacher again for some reason and the minute he walked through the door and asked me to do something i fell right into his arms (theoretically) and now i hate myself for it, i cant help but do it everytime and it happens frequently. how can i just stop hating myself and move on? i was going to ask him to apologise but a teacher im friends with said just because its me i might seem a little confrontational. should i ask him to apologise or just try to move on
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reader, Universe Man  +, writes (16 May 2010):
Don't ever ask anyone to apologize to you, because if you go through life expecting things of people, they will just disappoint you over and over. If your feelings are hurt, it's usually okay to express it. The key is to remember to talk about your feelings and not about the other person's actions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question1. it aint an obsession
2. this was last year and last summer i got over him
3. i was asking how i could stop hating myself everytime i fall into his arms
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes but boys my own age arent mature and intelligent enough, i need someone with maturity and wisdom and careingness.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 May 2010):
You can't ask him to apologise. Theoretically, he's done nothing and you could get into serious trouble. You've got to continue to move on. Anything else and you could get into trouble.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2010): Right for a start this is a big no no. He is older than you and your a minor. Nothing will ever happen between you too the worse thing you could do is ask for an apoligy just move on and get with someone your own age. This is just trouble waiting to happen. Hope I helped. S'f :)
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