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writes: I was with my boyfriend for a year we moved in together & last week we broke up. He said he was going to sleep in the living room until he found some whereelse to go but he hasn't hes been sleeping in the bed with me. Everything is like it was when we were together; he just doesn't think it will work, but we have been acting normal kisses, hugs, having sex. i just want him back. i love him so much i dont know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2005): Hi, this may be too late for you, but maybe it will help someone else!
Talk to him, before its too late. I found myself in just the situation recently, where we were acting like a normal couple, love, hugs, sex, shopping,etc etc yet underneath it all I was burdened with the knowledge I going to move out shortly. I didnt really want to go but I didnt tell him this (pride? I don't know) and once I was gone, it was too late, he's set his mind that this was it, over. We never got the chance to talk things through and give our relationship a chance of survival. I will never know if we might still be together if we'd just talked!!
A reader, Natalie, writes (19 February 2005): First of all, you can't imagine that the break up didn't happen, as if he leaves now you will be left feeling used and silly. You need to ask him if you can give it another go. Do something you have never done before. If you are still having sex then maybe this is a good starting point. Be spontaneous. Put candles around the bedroom for when he gets home from work and get yourself dolled up. You need to get this sorted otherwise it will play on your mind. Don't just leave it in fear that you'll hear something you don't want to. Good luck.
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