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writes: I feel like I'm going crazy! I was looking at the myspace page of one of my fiance's friends, and he wrote something about having fun dancing with her at a bar and put baby at the end. She is way younger than him, and I know they are just friends, but why did he use the term "baby"? He only does that with me. I don't want to turn into a jealous person, but then I asked him about it and he got mad. He said it was stupid of me to look at what he wrote on other people's walls. Did I cross the line, or would that make other people feel uncomfortable as well?
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (16 August 2007):
 Have you had any reason to think bad of him other than this babe?
You did not cross the line as it is not as though you were looking at his myspace, unless of course you suspected something and you looked trying to find something out.
Do you trust him?
I would never feel uncomfortable about my husband looking at any accounts of mine whatsoever as i have nothing to hide.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2007): Personally, I would have questioned him on it. In my opinion, he is your fiance` and you have the right to know about his female friends and the extent of their relationship. I would say that you really didn't cross the line. If the two of you are considering marriage, he should have no reason to get upset that you looked at what he said to another woman. He should have nothing to hide from you. I happen to be a fairly jealous person, and as such, my husband doesn't have many female friends and shares openly with me the extent of those relationships. He does it to keep me happy and worry-free. Getting angry at someone is defensiveness, usually meaning he's gotten something to hide, but not necessarily. It is possible that he just doesn't understand why you would question the relationship he has with this woman. Either way, I would definately sit down and talk with him about what's what and what's okay and what's not. Set up some ground rules between the two of you. If this is the man you are seriously considering spending the rest of your life with, the two of you should do a lot more opening up to one another. That's just my opinion. I hope I have been of help. Good luck!
-RJGirl
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