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writes:My fiance has asked me like once or twice if we were to ever break up could we be "Friends with Benefits". Why would he ask me this? What am I supposed to say? He says if we were to ever break up he would not come back to me, and he's also said that if we ever break up, he doesnt even wanna be friends. So what I also am asking is could it be that all he wants is "sex"?
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reader, empty-1 +, writes (13 December 2009):
I would answer the same as Gina, but for different reasons.
I ask my wife weird questions all the time. Almost all of the time, thry are hypotheticals, you know the "what if" of "if this, then maybe that?" sort of questions.
Some of them are pretty weird, and, for the record, the "breakup" and "divorce" catagory is neither specifically excluded, nor hyperfocused.
Maybe he just wanted to pick your brain, Like I sometimes do with my wife.
If that, were, indeed the case, the no answer is definitely the favored response. It keeps him on less sure footing as to where he stands on a lot of fronts. This particular game is all about keeping one another guessing. It helps keep things interesting. However, I would also suggest you be careful with it, and not let unsure become insecure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Gina.
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