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30-35,
anonymous
writes:at the start of my level three course i meat this guy(for privacy reasons I'll use the name (matt) and we became like best mates i even put some of my longer friendships aside for him, its like he was my reason to go to college, and one day he told me that he really liked me and that he didnt care about his girlfriend he just wanted me. so i met him the next day and i went back to his house and we had sex etc etc then after that we never spoke again at all and he was my first as well. He already knew from the first week i met him that i had the hots for his cousin (jamie) not his real name and 4 months after it happened, me and jamie start talking a lot and he found out about me and matt and he was cool about it and then he told me that matts always cheating on his girlfriend he just doesnt care bout her. Now me and jamie are quite good friends and he keeps asking me to have sex with him and he likes me n stuff, but... their both coming away with me and my mates on my birthday and i dont know if it will be too wierd to get with jamie after what's happend with matt i need some help please.
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (19 June 2009):
 As you want to have a great birthday with no complications don't have sex with Jamie before you go. When your birthday is over and you have returned you can then make a decision about being with him or not. If he doesn't like that then you will know that you did the right thing by holding back. By the way I think Matt used you, be careful Jamie isn't doing the same thing.
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