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writes:I was partying with common friend of mine and my boyfriend.I got late so stayed at his place.But he started kissing me.I pushed him away and i didn't do anything.But he was trying to kiss me that i couldn't resist and i kissed him back for a very little time.As i said i didnt do nythng but the guy was such a despo he was trying all night to convince me.I hate him and never talked to him after that.I told all of it that happened to my boyfriend.He got totally hurt coz the guy is his bestfriend and he never thought that the guy can do such things to me.He lost the trust on his best friend and now he also got angry with me that how can i kiss him back??what was with me?? It was my mistake that i kissed him back and i really hate myself for that.I really really love my boyfriend so much.I dont want to see him hurting like this coz of me.what shud I do?will he able to trust on the things whatever I say to him??I cant get these things out of my mind??what should i do earn his trust back??he thinks that i was also involved in the things that happened that night!! I talked to him on this issue.Actually I cried in front of him it was kind of natural coz i cant see him hurting so much.He cant see me crying and he said I will never talk on this topic again and its ok.But I still somewhere fill that he cant forget what happened!And its killing me.I cant concentrate on anything else.Now every time I talk to him I feel like I don't deserve him.I feel guilty.I want this feeling to go away.plz help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2010): Well maby just maybe he isent right for you. Before you get
Angry, just think that if he does not trust you, well you figure the
Rest out on your own.
GOOD LUCK
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (12 November 2010):
 If it is guilt that burdens you, I suggest that you continue loving your boyfriend. Show him how much you love him and when you prove to yourself that you can love him completely, he will see it too and he will trust you again.
When you kiss him, make it last long enough for him to feel your love seep through your lips and into him. When you hold each other, make sure he can feel your devotion emanate through your very soul. He will know.
I know that it may haunt him. I know that inside you are both slowly dying inside because of what happened but you have to move past it. What happened, happened and there is nothing you can do to change it but, you can make up for it now and move on together. We all make mistakes. Luckily you did not go further than a mere meaningless kiss. In time you will both let it go.
I hope that helps.
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