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writes:Anyone ever had 2 weeks of your life where everything is going wrong and you cant see any light at the end of the tunnel???I failed my driving test-again! I didnt get a promotion at work-despite the fact i work twice as hard and the girl that got it is practically best friends with the manager. Then work decided to change my bonus so i earn even less now but am expected to do more work :-(. My mum is giving me the silent treatment because of something trivial and my boyfriend decided he likes to spend more time with his new male colleague than he does with me and a good friend at work-or so i thought she was has decided to ditch me and befriend soemone else and only asks me to lunch with her when this other person isnt available.I know there are worse things that can happen and i feel bad for moaning but if 1 more thing goes wrong i wont know what to do.It seems the more i work hard,the more im nice to people the worse things get... Maybe i should try being a bitch and coming in to work hungover and my luck will change.Anyone care to enlighten me??
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reader, Tigerlily  +, writes (6 February 2010):
We all go through these phases sometimes. A few years ago, I had to move out of my house, my friend died, AND my mom was in the hospital all in the dead of winter right after XMas in the space of 2 weeks! It was crazy. I felt like I was under attack!
But what helped me was to just take a deep breath, hide out for a few days and lick my wounds and then to remind myself that I'm a good person, I do have friends who love me and get out and have some fun. Things will get better, just breathe and ride the wave. Try to distract yourself with something you enjoy.
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reader, starfairy +, writes (6 February 2010):
 Sometimes when you wallow in problems, they seem like they will never go away. Figure out your priorities, what do you want to change? Make a list if it helps. Then make it happen. Life sucks sometimes, so the promotion went to someone less deserving, so keep your head down, work hard and keep your eye out for other jobs about.
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