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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend of almost 3 years wanted some space. It was really almost impossible for me to give it to him because it really hurt me. This past weekend something bad happened to me and he said that because of that he realized how much he loved me. Things where fine except he said he would get anxious when I called and sometimes whouldn't pick up. Finally, yesterday he called and we made plans. After a couple of hours I called to see where he was and he never picked up. This really kills me because I am going through a lot right now and I needed his support. He is my first love and I don't want to let go of that either. When we were apart I couldn't eat or do anything but cry, I just don't want to go through that again. Why do you think he is acting this way and what can I do to get through to him?thanks so much for your help Reply to this Question
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reader, beautifulllove +, writes (22 April 2007):
 girl god do i know how you feel just take a deep breath my fiance did the same to me and now still trien to work things out but look he may be stressed out yeah trust me we can do that and it hurts worse than you know but besides my fiance said he did need time but hardly called me and only wanted too txt and were in two differnt citys but im moving to him so i hope it goes well but he may just need to get him self together love can be scary and stressful and then maybe he doesnt want to hurt you cause he does care but at the same time hes feelings have changed if he gets upset when you tlk to him which you should tell him how you feel than may be for you sake you need to call a break even thow its hard you got to follow your heart but use your head and love in your heart doesnt cause pain its all in your brain you just got to do whats right not what you feel is right b cuz it may hurt u worse in the end. i hope all goes well your in my prayers
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