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Anal is painful whereas in our previous relationships we both have enjoyed it, what shall I do?

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Question - (15 April 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 April 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi i am a 21 year old male and i have a very embarassing problem that threatens to wreck my love life and my sexual life. My boyfriend's penis will not fit into my bottom which is causing a lot of stress for us both. We both do oral sex but anal sex is a manuever we both enjoyed in our last relationships and would like to carry on, what shall i do?

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (16 April 2008):

love-him agony auntHEY !!

Like all the other answers, the best thing to do, is use a lubricant which is designed for anal sex.. Relax.. Use small toys and gradually get bigger..

I hope i helped, GOOD LUCK Feel free to mail me at any time x x x

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2008):

Like the other posts - you need to use good lubricant like KY Jelly. Using a finger, then a dildo smaller than his penis and then his penis might do the trick (if you haven't tried it already). You may have been nervous the first time and more nervous from then on because it didn't work out - so try you best to relax.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008):

being that your doing anal..im sure you've tried KY or some lubricant. Use smaller dildos and work your way up--it should be able to fit eventually. The anus is very conforming.

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A female reader, daniellexxxx United Kingdom +, writes (15 April 2008):

daniellexxxx agony auntHave you tryed ky jelly or baby oil if so try it slowly then when it's in it might not cause as much pain.

Good luck.

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