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writes:OK i am acualy 175-180lbs and i have a body that makes me look like im at least 130lbs and i look good (so people keep telling me) in a bikini but i dont feel like it. im curvy with a pudge on my stomach and my butt sticks way out from my back ! and i dont think it very attractive to people im a nice regular b cup and its like i see guys look and idk what theyre thinking and i think there looking in disgust and i just want to know am i just crazy or am i really unatractive . . . . i have a boyfriend who calls me beautiful with a sexy body but i just need to know (oh im 5'6) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2010): Self confidence makes beauty.
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reader, cheerwhore23 +, writes (23 December 2010):
If other people tell you you're beautiful then you're probably not ugly...but you yourself have to think that you're pretty too because if you do, you will feel more confident with yourself:)
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reader, cian  +, writes (23 December 2010):
 If you are uncomfortable with your own image, it does you no good to keep belittling yourself for minor "imperfections".
Everyone's butt sticks out a little, and everyone carries a little weight around the midsection on the front-side. Men and women both. Some people dress to hide it, or find ways to make it seem lesser.
Fact is, if you dislike this upon yourself, and want to lose a tiny bit of weight and tone some muscle, you can. It takes work though. Good news, your cup size won't change that much - if you target the right areas with the right exercises.
PLUS!!! Any minor changes to your bust won't make you less attractive.
You are an excellent height, and I'm sure you are exactly perfect as you are. You are a beautiful person inside too.
5'6" is not a detriment.
Now, last and not least, you have a loving boyfriend. He should accept you for who you are, any shape or form. I bet he doesn't think you are unattractive.
But, if he does think anything less of you for your image, then your relationship needs work... because relationships are about a balance in acceptance of good and challenging traits.
Go look in a mirror, smile, and tell yourself you're pretty. I don't care if you do it once or 1000 times, but you are beautiful.
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