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All I can think about is sex and I'm going desperate! Is this normal?

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Question - (30 June 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 July 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, *eartt breakk writes:

hey all,,

this is a 19 year old guy, a virgin guy, yes I never had sex, because the gals in my town are not so open, well it's not too easy to get a girlfriend here.

but since last few months, i'm just getting out of control. whenever i see a hottie, I get an erectiond.

i just want to make somehow, getting too desperate, but i don't like going to a prostitute.

i'm thinking of sex too much.

i hope all is normal?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010):

You have nothing to be embarrassed about. Unfortunately we live in a society that seems to inundate us with sex and leaves many young people thinking if they are not part of the game they are missing something remarkable or you are an oddball. There's nothing abnormal about you and no need to rush it. It will come naturally, you just have to be patient.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2010):

Its not helpful to be sexually obsessed. It is a combination of sexual pressure and insecurity. Daily masturbation can reduce the pressure so you can take the time to find a girl friend that's more than s semen recipient.

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A female reader, hotnhorny United Kingdom +, writes (30 June 2010):

hotnhorny agony auntFirst thing first DONT be ashamed or embarrassed about still being a virgin at 19 there is absolutely nothing wrong with that in any way shape or form. I am also glad to hear that you are not contenplating using a prostitute.

It might make you feel better to no that I'm 19 and I think of it all the time (fair enough I am married but I thin about it more than I think that I should.) At your age it is perfectly normal to be thinking about it all the time. Its not the nicest of things to go threw but there isnt really anything that can be done about it until you either grow out of the stage or learn how to control the situation. About 90% of men (at all ages may I add) still get an erection when they see a girl (or guy) that they find atractive which is also why alot of men feel embarrassed even when they get an erection for no apparent reason. I used to no a guy that used to have one everytime a bus or car went over a speed bump.

Please do not worry youa re pecftly normal in all ways there is nothing wrong. When you find the right person and you fell ready then you will loose your virginity, it doesnt matter how old you are as long as it is legal and safe.

Hope to hear from you soon, and hope that I was some help.

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