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female
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anonymous
writes:Hi, thank you in advance for reading this.... Ive known for a while nowmy husband has been doing some serious facebook flirting, recently though i think he has went a step further and met up with someone. This has completely devastated me because even when i new he was flirting i still didnt think he would go any further. Im so annoyed with myself for being so weak and not having the strength to confront this, im so scared of what might happen if i tell him i know this, im worried that if we split the kids will be gutted, he wont make life easy for me thats fot sure. He tells me he loves me, but how can he when i know hes messing about??? I just dont know what to do, we are married 17 yrs with 4kids, its alot to walk away from, i dont have the strength, i feel like a doormat and a fool, this is affecting all aspects of my life, im turning into a freak who checks everything, my moods are all over the place, i really need help x
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reader, oldbag +, writes (6 September 2014):
 How do you want this situation to end?
Do you have the proof he has cheated - you let the flirting go on so he continued it, that's cheating in a way, he is married to you, you have a family
The ball is in your court.
If you have no doubts he has cheated then you have to confront him with the evidence. Stand firm, show him you mean business. Talk.
This is incredibly hard to do when your world is falling apart, but it needs to be bought out and confronted or you will drift on feeling worse by the day.
Children need happy mums, they will pick up on your feelings, but they will always love you no matter what you do next.
Good luck
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