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writes:so im 18 a virgin think got a date round mine this wed and some reason i think im ready.. if i do.. to have sex with him..but... lol.. 18 a good age isnt it?.. cause i nver wanted to do it earlier cause i had pals who lost it at like 13 and im like oh my goodness you know no offense to them but there hardly even a teenager you know.. im just trying to convince myself tht its good even if me n the guy dont go anywhere it will be ok cause you know he turns me on makes me feel good and i think i would be happy to remember the way i popped me cherry haha... right??.. sorry i dnt like getting emotional lol Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey peeps.. umm it didnt happen.. cause he stood me up lol.. didnt get in contact wth me till 9pm after tea was cooked nie romatic lighting lol done... but i let you know his excuse...
1st.. lol.. he was in the office the whole day with his commander so he couldnt txt me.. it was his day off and 7 hours without a break :S
(i say too him... ok well its not too late you an still come over as im nice and i didnt want the night to go to a waste. being kind)
2nd.. hmm?.. ' i cant cause this morning before work i had to send 500 dollars to my dad cause my step mom is ill''
now im very understanding cause i just finished caring for my mother who had a double bisectactamy ( cant spell itlol) and its just he couldve told me you know or txt me so i wouldnt have to wait for it.. but doesnt it sound weird ya know i just found it hard to believe what do you think???
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): well, just because your friends lost theirs dosent mean you have to lose yours. if your in love and ready to take the next step to have sex then do it but if its just something you want to do think about it. when its your first time and your not in love, it might hurt
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): haha omg alot of my friends have losted it at 12-15. im the only one who's left standing as a virgin andyes i think thats a perfect age. Im only 16 and i want to lose it when im 18. You probably dont want tolisten to someone 2 yrs younger than you so i'll stopbut lets just say that i approve and thats a great age good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): Hi, honey, I'm not sure what advice you need because you seem to have answered the question yourself. You say think you're ready!!?? Along with 'I'm just trying to convince myself'I personally don't think your are sure within yourself yet, so whats the rush? If your looking for a slow meaning full love match, then perhaps you wait until your secure within yourself and your partner. Or if you just want your first time to be wam bam thank you mam, then go for it. The choice is yours and yours alone. Just make sure all safety precautions are taken, you can't undo it once it's done. Hope this helps, be safe and respect yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): Honey, it doesn't matter if you're 18 or 88. You shouldn't have to talk yourself into being ready, and (now, this is just my opinion) you should really wait to lose your virginity to someone you love and trust, rather than someone that won't mean anything to you later. Now, if you care about this guy, then great. But the way you've worded this, it sounds to me like you're trying to convince yourself that you're ready. Don't force it. You'll know when the time is right.
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