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| | *hatamessinwinter's profile:I was born in London but didn't grow up here. I've been living here for a few years, English teaching and trying to comprehend what I'm doing.
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How to ask girlfriend to let me know her plans without imposing on her sense of her own time?
Q. I would like some advice on how to get over my anxious feelings when I'm on my own. In the morning and daytime I'm usually busy with things to do, but when my girlfriend gets out of work I really want to see her. The problem is that she's in a job ...
A. 13 October 2008: female-anonymous:
Thanks for your thoughtful reply.
Yes, I have been along on a few occasions - it was okay, but I felt that everyone pretty much knew each other already, and I didn't click with anyone much. ....I'm not sure I'm putting it w... (read in full...)
I am having suspicions that my girlfriend is cheating on me.
Q. Hi everyone, I am having suspicions that my girlfriend is cheating on me. I have been having these suspicions for quite a while now, and recently took action to see if anything was going on. The other night as we were asleep in bed I secretly placed ...
A. 12 October 2008: Fade878:
It's a joke.... (read in full...)
Am I just someone she likes to have hanging around or does she really like me?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am 23 and currently dating a girl (20) I met at a camp 3 years ago. We did not meet since then and we only started dating about 9 months back. However I had feelings for her back then and when we got together she told me that she did ...
A. 12 October 2008: Trust your instinct about her body language. The answer is clear - she hangs around with you, but that's it.
HOWEVER:
People are weird and change what they feel, sometimes when you don't expect it. My advice: go absolutely cold on her, no calls, n... (read in full...)
Are "Scorpio" women more jealous?
Q. I don't really believe in horoscopes or things like that, but being born under the "Scorpio" sign I do find myself being kind of jealous over my man. And I'm wondering if other women (or men) who are born under the Scorpio sign have problems with ...
A. 12 October 2008: I forgot to add that if you're getting porn pop-ups, then your pc most likely has viruses/trojans etc. He caused it, so I think you should tell him to sort it out - you'll need to run a virus scanner and an anti-spyware program, and make sure your ... (read in full...)
Are "Scorpio" women more jealous?
Q. I don't really believe in horoscopes or things like that, but being born under the "Scorpio" sign I do find myself being kind of jealous over my man. And I'm wondering if other women (or men) who are born under the Scorpio sign have problems with ...
A. 12 October 2008: In the case you give, with the women at the party, you describe knowing that they're not particularly attractive and "considerably boring in my opinion" etc. But presumably there are women in the world more attractive than you, and who your bf ... (read in full...)
How to ask girlfriend to let me know her plans without imposing on her sense of her own time?
Q. I would like some advice on how to get over my anxious feelings when I'm on my own. In the morning and daytime I'm usually busy with things to do, but when my girlfriend gets out of work I really want to see her. The problem is that she's in a job ...
A. 11 October 2008: thanks A Capella:
Very helpful reply. As you note:
"It's not unreasonable to want to spend time with your girlfriend. It's also not unreasonable for her to want time alone. But this sounds like you're alone more than she is."
That's the thing.... (read in full...)
Are "Scorpio" women more jealous?
Q. I don't really believe in horoscopes or things like that, but being born under the "Scorpio" sign I do find myself being kind of jealous over my man. And I'm wondering if other women (or men) who are born under the Scorpio sign have problems with ...
A. 10 October 2008: Well, to Emilysanswers first, I think you're basically right about the ludicrousness of a predictive ability in astrology. I'm familiar with the arrogant mysticism of astrological literature (my mum was into all aspects of the occult and wanted to ... (read in full...)
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