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... Send *alykush a private message | | | *alykush's profile:Hello there I'm a 27 y/o studying Criminal Justice, currently studying how to profile people and how to interrogate them! wooo! lol I love to observe people, I do not, however, people watch, if you have sparked my interest I will not just quickly glance you over, I will keep watching your actions and movements and base my opinions off of those actions. I do not judge people quickly, however, I usually know within minutes if we will be friends or not.
I live in chicago :)
Things that make me tick...my kids. music. God. finding interesting quotes that relate to my current state of mind. Astrology. Tattoos. Self Expression (limited quanities is best... people who have 300 piercings in their face are disturbing in my mind)
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Any chance he'll come back?
Q. I have been seeing a guy for about two months now. I wouldn't give him the time of day at first and when I did he was absolutely wonderful. Problem is we work together. I was at lunch the other day and another co-worker told me he was bragging and ...
A. 7 February 2011: thats all you really can do... good luck though :) and if it doesnt work out at least be civil to each other since you do work together... this is why most companies have a no dating rule...... (read in full...)
Any chance he'll come back?
Q. I have been seeing a guy for about two months now. I wouldn't give him the time of day at first and when I did he was absolutely wonderful. Problem is we work together. I was at lunch the other day and another co-worker told me he was bragging and ...
A. 1 February 2011: not if you bother him about it and keep pushing him to get over the fact that you listened to a co-worker instead of maybe calmly approaching him about it.
you just showed him you dont trust him. why would he want to be involved with someone ... (read in full...)
Girl friend can't get over ex-boyfriend -- need advice!
Q. I just started talking to this girl that goes to my school. We've been out on our first date already and it went well (she likes me and I also like her). The only problem is that she recently got out of a serous relationship. She broke up with her ...
A. 12 January 2011: honestly... stop pursuing her... you can keep her as a friend but thats about all.
shes emotionally involved with this guy no matter how he has hurt her theres a connection there...
and if she broke up with him on NYE or around then... i... (read in full...)
He's joining the military and my religion won't let me move in with him!
Q. ok, well i am really confused on what i should do. this guy, let's call him Patrick. Well Patrick and i have been dating for 1 year and a few months... And he is getting ready to leave for boot camp for the army. And he has asked me to wait...
A. 5 January 2011: to be honest youre underage age and shouldnt even be considering moving in to any home with any man. if he is enlisted he is most likely of age... that being said i highly doubt that the US ARMY would allow him to move you onto base seeing as what ... (read in full...)
Is 21 too young to have a baby?
Q. I'm just wondering... is 21 too young to want a baby? I've been with my bf for 4 years.. we live together and lately ive been wanting to have a baby, thats all i think about all the time... parents wouldnt like it too much i know that... i dont hav...
A. 14 December 2010: well to be honest yes it is kind of young. however, i had my first child at 18 and then 22. sometimes i feel like i cheated myself out of my wonderful carefree years. i do not however regret my children. i just sometimes think if i would have waited ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend keeping me on a leash or making a genuine attempt? Should I text back?
Q. So my girlfriend and I dated for a couple months and then I had to go out of town for a job for 2 months. Right after I left, she got the job of her dreams and was extremely over the moon to have found success and "the guy of her dreams." (Her ...
A. 9 December 2010: wow... well to be honest... as a female who has been through this and is still going through it...
your best bet to grow your balls back, is to stop txtn her. do not play ifone anything with her and do not answer her calls...
basically she... (read in full...)
When his friends aren't around, it's a different story!
Q. I really like this guy, and he's been in my life forever. I'm younger than him....Okay...four years younger. He's funny and makes me laugh and smile. But he's a real player. He talks about how hot girls are infront of me. But when his friends aren't ...
A. 3 December 2010: you should talk to him privately and ask him exactly how he feels.
as for acting different infront of his friends. most Boys do this as a sign of showing off. but he can also be sending you signals that he's not very serious about you and won'... (read in full...)
Sexual fantasies about my cousin...
Q. For the past few years, I have had sexual fantasies of my sexy cousin. I have wanted to do anything and everything to her. I don't care if she is blood, she is so sexy. I want to have sex with her, and i am not sure as to how i should tell her. ...
A. 2 December 2010: wow this is the best thread ever.... and im not refering to the question...
i do love dirtball's reply... i know i was thrilled when my serious bf decided we should be just fuck buddies... i believe my response was something along this line... ... (read in full...)
Stepfather vs. Daughter with mother caught in the middle!
Q. My husband continues to nag at my 15 year old daughter. She is a slop and can be moody, but she is 15. When my daugther is not around, my husband and I get a long awesome...we never argue unless it is about her. She is a good kid (honor roll for ...
A. 23 November 2010: This is a very distrubing post to even come across...
stepfather v. daughter? REALLY? guess what your 'perfect' husband is a PERFECT S.O.B.! get rid of him. is your happiness really more important than that of your daughters?
i come from a... (read in full...)
Is my calmness going to backfire when his baby is born?
Q. I've only been dating this guy for a month but we've completely hit it off, we spend every waking moment together and we're pretty fond of each other. I've met his family and friends and they have welcomed me and vice versa. He had a one night st...
A. 22 November 2010: to be honest with you i agree although it can happen i highly doubt this baby is from a one night stand. and if it is...who's to say it's even his? i'd tell him toe get a paternity test ... not to insult the said to be mother but as a precaution. ... (read in full...)
Trying for a baby is destroying our sex life!
Q. Ive been with my girlfriend now for 2.5 years and 9 months ago we started trying for a baby. Since then the sexual side of the relationship has gone downhill for me totally. Once she has ovulated, i can forget sex, as she is worried about 'u...
A. 16 November 2010: although she is trying to concieve...she is going about it the wrong way and this in my own opinion tends to break couples up. creating a life isnt supposed to be stressful or like a second job. you should be having fun while creating this precious ... (read in full...)
I want to get rid of these fanny farts!
Q. right well where should i start.... i know it is normal but also very embarrassing an all. but when having sex with my partner sometimes i "fanny fart" that is what they call it these days well, they dont happen all the time but when they do i g...
A. 12 November 2010: its just air inside your vagina. nothing to be ashamed of. too much air is entering you during sex. you are in the wrong position - doggie style- try missionary.
you can google this... its actually called a queef ... (read in full...)
I added this girl on Facebook without knowing she's a blackmailer!
Q. Ok Well, About last month...some girl added me to face book. I didn't know her. Then later on I had her on msn messenger list..We started chatting, and then she started getting nasty and was almost demanding me to put on my web cam. It was getting ...
A. 12 November 2010: unless you saved the chat logs you dont have a case at all. sorry.
you must keep all chat logs make sure you have a time and date stamp on your logs
this person is 'unknown' but should be easy to track by her user name and IP address... but i... (read in full...)
I don't know if this break up is permanent?
Q. I had the perfect relationship with a great guy who I could see myself with long term as we had the same goals and wants out of life and a relationship as well as several things in common, but it all fell apart. We used to be so happy together both ...
A. 11 November 2010: I am sorry you are going through this. Sadly the advice I am going to give you may not make you happy...
I went through the exact same thing. I pushed my bf because i thought talking about it would make us stronger when i sensed him pulling ... (read in full...)
Sex - what do women prefer? And why do some women like to swallow when others dont?
Q. [Mod Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one] Here is a question that I always wanted answered by someone other than my wife.....Why do some girls like to swallow seamen and some don't? What do most woman prefer, oral sex...
A. 10 November 2010: I personally have always been a swallower: that being said. i pick and choose who i do so for and how often.
been with my bf for for over a year and have swallowed 99% of the time. the only reason i may not swallow is right before i may sike mys... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend trying to get me pregnant?
Q. So I got the birth control shot and the doc told me I had 2 wait a wk. My bf was happy cause we agreed we didn't want any accidents especially when Im younger than him (not ready) and he said he doesnt want kids. I told him, you cant cum inside me. ...
A. 9 November 2010: It's possible. But everyone is right YOU too are being careless. Although I highly doubt you will become pregnant.
To poster Fisch: Actually Pre-cum does NOT contain any sperm. The only way 'pre-cum' will contain sperm is IF the male had previous... (read in full...)
How important are blow jobs in a relationship?
Q. Gentlemen, Guys, thank you for your time. Thesis research your age/months-years in relationship, please. On a scale of 1 to 10 how important are blowjobs in a serious relationship? Is it preferred to regular sex? Do you consider it an act of love ...
A. 4 November 2010: I'm not a male (obviously) but from a females perspective, I never really enjoyed this act. That is until I got into a seriously relationship (together 1year 3months) to him it is most important. I please him daily sometimes 2 or 3 times a day - ... (read in full...)
I lied about my identity for 2 years and now he wants nothing to do with me!
Q. Okay so here's the thing I was stupid and lied about my identity on facebook..while I did that I met this guy, I didn't tell him the truth and I fell for him..he said he loved me he loved my personality and all... Well 2 years later I told him the ...
A. 3 November 2010: what exactly did you lie about? you had a fake picture up or what? personally i'd say let some time go by and then try to talk to him again if that fails let him go. yes he lost all his trust in you. and to be honest he's probably pissed off that he ... (read in full...)
He always cums way too quickly! Is there a cure for this?
Q. My Fiance Cums way too fast, sometimes soon as he sticks it inside me so is this because of he is almost 50 years old and is there a cure to this issue so we can have pleasurable Sex for long periods of time again??...
A. 2 November 2010: right as he is about to 'nutt' have him stop whatever it is he is doing and please you for a while.
my bf and i do this and we are young. he doesnt have an issue but sometimes we just wanna go all night.
so right b4 he nutts have him pull ou... (read in full...)
He prefers the street life to me!!!
Q. Hello. I'm 7 months pregnant and im so in love with my baby daddy. We've been together for 1 year and 2 weeks already and when we first started it was wonderful i loved it.. He didnt have a job but i made sure he had everything he needed we was ...
A. 2 November 2010: hi. im so sorry you're going through this. im going through exactly the same thing as well. except mine isnt in the street life he sjust deciding to pay more attention to the wrong people instead of his pregnant lady.
im gonna have to say as h... (read in full...)
Why won't he look at me anymore during sex?
Q. So heres another question about me and the bf... So we have rarely been having sex (my choice because he is being STUPID)... anyways... I noticed the last 2 times... he wont look at me (position willing) anymore. he used to make me look...
A. 1 November 2010: Well to answer some questions:
The reason I havent moved out is because there are legal reasons keeping me in the area pertaining to my 2 older children and that father since the case is in court i cannot move to where i would like to be. -see a d... (read in full...)
Do guys check out other girls to make their girlfriend mad?
Q. Im have a question that id love peoples input on. Do guys check out other girls in front of their girlfriends knowing that it makes the girlfriend mad and do they do it for that reason? Or do they really not notice. Every guy ive been serious with ...
A. 29 October 2010: its human nature to look at other people.
my guy does it now to piss me off but now that i've stopped showing that im jealous i just pretend not to notice... and it's come to an almost complete stop.
you cant stop anyone from lookin at things... (read in full...)
Why won't he look at me anymore during sex?
Q. So heres another question about me and the bf... So we have rarely been having sex (my choice because he is being STUPID)... anyways... I noticed the last 2 times... he wont look at me (position willing) anymore. he used to make me look...
A. 29 October 2010: Well, its complicated as Im 6months pregnant with his child... Like I stated before this is a new thing, it just recently started. :( However, no matter how hard I refrain from sex it still happens. - Obviously I'm not going to go find a guy to be ... (read in full...)
Should I keep my baby? It's all up to me....
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months, and now im 4 weeks pregnant. Im 19 years old and I don't feel I'm ready to be a mother. I want an abortion but I'm scared to kill my baby, most of all, I'm afraid he won't be there during and after the ...
A. 27 October 2010: as said before noone can answer this but you. youre the one that will have to live with any decision you make for the rest of your life.
i had an abortion a few years ago. i have finally come to terms with what i had done to my child, but ill neve... (read in full...)
FWB, then we are exclusive, then back to FWB. Now I'm pregnant.
Q. My bf and i have been together for a little over a year. our relationship is quite complicated. we met and both of us had been hurt and decided we didnt want a relationship or to be in love. well. HA we broke our own rules fell in love and became ...
A. 27 October 2010: Well because I do love him, I try to refrain from being so independent. If I need help I'll ask him for it, even though I can do it on my own... I.E. opening a bottle, or changing the oil in my truck, helping me with some other odd task.
I do ... (read in full...)
My parents are going to kick out my pregnant baby sister
Q. im 17 and my sisters 15 and pregnant and she wants too keep it and does not want to put her baby up for adoption but my parents and her have a rocky relationship so they dont want anything too do with her , i really want to help her because i love ...
A. 26 October 2010: Well if she is going to keep the baby like an adult then she needs to deal with it as an adult. not all parents want to be there for their pregnant teenagers. Do your parents know she is pregnant? Sometimes we over react to how we THINK our parents ... (read in full...)
Very depressed about bad sexual experience and small penis!
Q. Hello everyone, I am 21 years old and I have a small penis and have a very general questions. Should I look into some type of enlargement methods? I admit i have very low confidence about myself and most likely this is the more of an issue tha...
A. 26 October 2010: well if you are using steroids that will shrink your package, and that damage can never be reversed.
pills are just false advertisements they are placebos... meaning you will take them because the pretty girl on the TV AD told it WORKS WONDERS.... (read in full...)
FWB, then we are exclusive, then back to FWB. Now I'm pregnant.
Q. My bf and i have been together for a little over a year. our relationship is quite complicated. we met and both of us had been hurt and decided we didnt want a relationship or to be in love. well. HA we broke our own rules fell in love and became ...
A. 26 October 2010: to answer your responses to my question:
this is actually baby number 5 (yes FIVE) for him. The other 4 are from the same woman. They were broken up for 1.5 years before him and I ever came to be.
He already knows im not going after him for ch... (read in full...)
He said he loves me and is missing me and suddenly wants nothing to do with me!
Q. I have been dating a guy for 8 months previously we had been best friends for a few years. We have been having a difficult month due to moving home and him being made redundant. Then one day out of the blue he text me to say he wasnt happy, w...
A. 25 October 2010: well honey, he may be bipolar. this is what my bf or my ex bf does to me basically every week. our situation is a bit more complicated, however my advice is to just stop contacting him all together, he seems confused. and is in turn only confusing ... (read in full...)
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