I like this girl so much but I'm so mixed up in my head. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Q. I was just wondering if u offered relationship help, because I've got myself worked up over a girl, and i really dont know what to do. I started a new job last year, and one of my old friends from school worked there too. I got to know every...
A. 16 February 2007: I agree with dagwood, shes got issues. You need to figure out the type of girl that will really make you happy. Even if you got with this girl, wouldnt you be constantly worried shes going to get it on with your mate ? Or find something on the side ... (read in full...)
I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, he is marriage material but I feel like things are getting a little boring! Should I break up with him or what?
Q. Relationship advise wanted! I am 24 and my boyfriend is 30. We have been together for just over 5 years, but I am starting to feel like things are getting a little boring. He is awesome, but I am not ready for marriage and I have not had a sexual ...
A. 16 February 2007: Why does it matter that he is marriage material. You dont HAVE to get married. If you are looking at every guy thinking ''hes so hot i wish i was single'', how are you going to stay faithful to your husband and have a decent marriage. You could ... (read in full...)
Any idea how we can have more fulfilling sex?
Q. My boyfriend and I both haveflabby stomachs and his penis is small. We have tried man-on-top a few times but he can't seem to penetrate me this way. Is there a way to get this right?...
A. 16 February 2007: Try it with you on top. ... (read in full...)
What has happened here and how do I sort it?
Q. Over the last few months a man has been paying me special attention, asking me questions about my views and attitudes in life, asking advice and he is always complemeting me about my appearance and my sense of humour. Everyone has noticed. One night ...
A. 16 February 2007: Just tell him you were embarrest. Tell him you are not used to so much attention (even if you are) and that you would like to start again. Or you just kiss him, that would save haveing to come up with things to say.... (read in full...)
I think I am losing her big time! Does anyone have any ideas how I can prove I love and want to be with her?
Q. Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for just over a year, i am 20 nearing 21 and she is 25 nearing 26. We met on a work night out and we wheve been in love ever since. From the start she has always asked about my ex girlfriends, what i did ...
A. 16 February 2007: I personally think you need to make a gesture and seriously tell her how you feel and how much you love her. I admit you should have just been honest, but i can understand that at the time you didnt want your past runing your new relationship. Tell ... (read in full...)
How can I appeal to guys more?
Q. I really want a boyfriend but i don't want to be all desperate and make a fool out of myself... I guess i look ok but not like really pretty or beautiful or anything... My friend is a bit slimmer than me so when she wears mini shorts and when ...
A. 16 February 2007: They are only attracted to her at first glance. You need a boyfriend that you have got to know first. Just be yourself, being funny always helps to lol.... (read in full...)
Is it weird to love a celebrity?
Q. Is it weird to love a celebrity more than normal? Do I like that celebrity or is just fan love?...
A. 16 February 2007: No, when i was 11 or 12 i was in love with will smith. I couldnt help it, i just thought about him ALL THE TIME. So, yes your completely normal and NO its not weird. ... (read in full...)
How can I win my boyfriend back again?
Q. I want my ex-boyfriend back. I'm 15 hes' 16. We made plans to stay together forever. He cheated on me first then 4 mths later I did the same to him. His dad doesn't like me. Now he's dating one of my friends. My heart is broken real bad. I've been ...
A. 16 February 2007: You mate should not really be with him anyway, ''accidently'' kiss him when you are talking to him in private. ... (read in full...)
Why am I feeling like this? Should I break up with him or not?
Q. i need help ASAP.I've been with this guy for 2 weeks. i havent known him long and have a feeling it may of been a bit fast. when im with him its fine, a bit quiet sometimes as we dnt have that many of the same interests i've recently realised. But ...
A. 16 February 2007: Well, i would say to give it a while. At least to make his friends yours aswell so you have a better chance of keeping them. You will only know how you feel about breaking up when you have broken up.... (read in full...)
Caught my gf with a date site profile.....can they fill out automatically??
Q. I walked in my girlfriend,and saw a date/chat and text site on her computer.All the details date of birth etc were all correct.She say`s she doesnt know anything about it,then began to fire allegations of her own at me. Can chatrooms automaticaly ...
A. 16 February 2007: Of course not. Not enless your on AOL and she has that automatic form thing set up. And even then, it only fills out the form if you tell it to. Tell her shes a liar and tell her your NOT an idiot. Dont let her push you about like this. ... (read in full...)
I had my chance and blew it! How do I move on now?
Q. I met my husband when I was 19 and we were best friends. He is a funny, kind, lovely guy who always treated me well. Three years ago I began a new job and started an affair with a man who had quite a reputation as a womaniser. Our affair was very ...
A. 16 February 2007: You only started to miss your husband when he met another woman. You were not botherd before. Why is that ?
I wouldnt bother worrying, i am sure you will meet someone eventually. At least your husband has met a woman hes going to have a child with... (read in full...)
I want to introduce this site to my boyfriend. Is it a good idea?
Q. Ok guys....i have been with this site for 3 months now, with a huge issue that, should I have not discovered this site. I think I would be crazy and lost my mind....... Thanks to your meditating advices and your warmness.... However since i ...
A. 16 February 2007: Well, as long as your sure he wont think your doing it just to get him back...or make him feel bad for leaveing you. But yes, introduce him to the site.... (read in full...)
I didn't have sex w/ her b/c I'm against one night stands. She wants to get closer and I like her, but don't like how she is so "loose" w/ guys!
Q. Hi, I wanted to ask for advice. I went to a works weekend and shared a flat with a friend and two girls. After lots of drink one of the girls started getting very close with me. Then she started kissing my mate (i didnt know this until after the ...
A. 16 February 2007: Well, like you said...she doesnt edzactly play hard to get does she. She either doesnt have alot of self esteem, or shes just plain out for the fun of it. I would say that maybe she needs someone to love her and show her she doesnt need to ... (read in full...)
Why am I always so paranoid it's going to go wrong? We get along great!
Q. I have been with my b/f for 3 months and everything is going really well. We have great times together and had a lovely valentines day. The problem is that when i dont hear from him all day or he doesn't answer my tex msgs or e mails i get really ...
A. 16 February 2007: I get like this to. Because your afraid of getting hurt and being alone, you go into auto-panic when you feel the salightest thing isnt right.I think the only way to calm yourself is say to yourself, i dont care if i get hurt...i am going to love ... (read in full...)
How can I get my boyfriend to be a more considerate lover?
Q. My boyfriend and I have generally have sex at least once a day, although it's not always as fulfilling as I'd like it to be. My boyfriend masturbates to fall asleep and when he wakes up and doesn't take into consideration that I might want to have ...
A. 16 February 2007: How can it be earthmoveingly fulfilling when you do it all the time. Take a break from the bedroom departent, dont have sex for a couple of days (or a week) and it should be more fufilling. I also have problem relaxing, perhaps its because he doesnt ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend told me that she can't remember what I look like when I'm not around. Am I just being sensitive?
Q. My girlfriend told me that she can't remember what I look like when I'm not around. She obviously recognises me when she sees me of course. Yet she says that she can remember what my brothers look like! Does this mean anything? or am I just bei...
A. 16 February 2007: To be honest i cant always remember what people look like edzactly when i havnt seen them for a couple of days. When i go on holidays, for like two weeks, i cant always conjour up an edzact image of my boyfriend in my head. Does your brother have ... (read in full...)
Am I being a fool thinking things could work out for us? Where should I go from here?
Q. I received the email below from my boyfriend, who I did not realize was seeing someone else.. we live in separate cities and saw each other at Christmas and we talked about our relationship and he stated he wanted us to do things right... that he ...
A. 16 February 2007: Do you know where he lives ? I would go to his place and tell this other woman about how he wanted marriage and children. ... (read in full...)
I thought he liked me but he bought my best friend a valentine gift and not me! What do I do?
Q. Hello, I don't know what to do. I've fallen for my best friend's ex boyfriend, i even began to believe he liked me too because of the way he was when he spoke to me. We even made arrangements to kiss but he bought my best friend a valentin...
A. 14 February 2007: Oh, your feelings are probly really hurt. Perhaps he just didnt know how you felt. He might not have understood your signals. @--{--{-- I know im a girl to but theres a rose from me. ... (read in full...)
How can I tell her I do love her, but only as a friend?
Q. I have a girlfriend and we have been going out for a couple of months now. She was the one who confessed her feelings to me, and I said I felt the same but now I realise that I do love her - but as a friend. I know it will really hurt her and me if ...
A. 14 February 2007: Say, i do love you...but only as a friend. Tell her she will meet someone who is right for her. But you just arnt.... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and haven't got enough courage to talk to boys. Any ideas?
Q. I'm 17 and I still havent ever had a boyfriend. I havent got enough courage to talk to boys...please can I have some tips from the guys...tell me how you would like to be asked out, or whats a good hint that I like you? Thanks xxx...
A. 14 February 2007: Well im not a guy, but i thought i would answer anyway. The first thing is that you have to tell yourself your a gorgeous girl. Build up some condfidence by telling yourself this, so much that you feel it. Try not to worry to much about talking to ... (read in full...)
Problems with my friends-they misinterpret what I tell them! What should I do?
Q. I think my friends have interpreted some of my comments the wrong way, yet when I try to explain they just deny that I meant that. First, my friend told me she went for an audition for S CLUB JUNIORS, a mid-late teens pop group, and I said that I d...
A. 14 February 2007: You could always say, sorry if you thought i was being rude or offensive but i honestly never meant it that way. Have you ever though they are doing it to piss you off ? They really could be doing it to be awkward and horrible to you. They seem ... (read in full...)
What are the first symptoms of being pregnant?
Q. what are the symptoms of the first couple of days being pregnant? ...
A. 14 February 2007: Im not 100% sure, as i heard that some woman dont get morning sickness when there pregnaunt. Go on a search engine, like google, and put in symptoms of pregnancy. You should also now that a delayed period can also be the cause of stress. And if ... (read in full...)
What are the first symptoms of being pregnant?
Q. what are the symptoms of the first couple of days being pregnant? ...
A. 14 February 2007: Im not 100% sure, as i heard that some woman dont get morning sickness when there pregnaunt. Go on a search engine, like google, and put in symptoms of pregnancy. You should also now that a delayed period can also be the cause of stress. And if ... (read in full...)
Should I go my overseas trip even although I've been issued an ultimatum from my boyfriend?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months and all has been going perfectly. The problem is, I have been planning an overseas trip for 5 weeks at the end of the year. He is having major issues with this and says he doesn't see the point ...
A. 14 February 2007: Hes acting like a selfish insecure child. Tell him you love him and that your not going to cheat on him. And anyway, he will probly cheat on you while your away. Your relationship may not even last to the end of this year. Dont give up your trip, if ... (read in full...)
This is a bit unusual I know, tomorrow is V's day. (I'm the female) but I want to stay in and watch the FA cup replay!!! How do I tell my boyfriend?
Q. Hi everyone, I am in a bit of a pickle here! My partner and I have arranged to go out tomorrow night (we try and go out for a meal at least once or twice a week) - now, unless you live in a cave, you will realise that tomorrow is Valenti...
A. 13 February 2007: You could tape it and all that ect.ect. But your bloke will probly adore it and fall in love with you all over again. (thats if he likes football). Who are you anyway, mans perfect woman or something lol. ... (read in full...)
It's so offputing when he stares at me. Is my teacher just being normal?
Q. i'm in 11th grade and at my school there is this teacher who doesn't even teach me but he acts really wierd with me. Hes like the strictest teacher in the school to everyone but me. Once he took a photo of me and started going on about how much he ...
A. 13 February 2007: No its not normal. Perhaps you should tell your head master (princible), that this guy is freaking you out. Its better if you do as he may have done this (or worse) to other girls. Message me if you need help with this or want to talk more. But no ... (read in full...)
I got my cousin pregnant - we're both 17 and don't know what to do! Help!
Q. My cousin and i recently were both at a party. After the party she came back to my house to sleepover as both our parents were away for the night. As you can already guess one thing led to another and we ended up sleeping together, the only problem ...
A. 13 February 2007: Well, like everyone has said, get her a pregnancy test. Also, you cant be 100% sure its even your baby. If she has slept with you its likely she has slept with loadsa other guys aswell. Just sort the thing out with the baby first, get it aborted or ... (read in full...)
I got my cousin pregnant - we're both 17 and don't know what to do! Help!
Q. My cousin and i recently were both at a party. After the party she came back to my house to sleepover as both our parents were away for the night. As you can already guess one thing led to another and we ended up sleeping together, the only problem ...
A. 13 February 2007: Well, like everyone has said, get her a pregnancy test. Also, you cant be 100% sure its even your baby. If she has slept with you its likely she has slept with loadsa other guys aswell. Just sort the thing out with the baby first, get it aborted or ... (read in full...)
Ready to have sex but is there a time in-between periods when pregancy is impossible??
Q. OK. So here's the thing. Me and my boyfriend are totally into each other and have been going out a while now. Anyway long story short, we're both ready to have sex and understand the consequences and stuff, and we're both virgins. We are both of ...
A. 13 February 2007: Pregnancy is NEVER impossible.... (read in full...)
Ready to have sex but is there a time in-between periods when pregancy is impossible??
Q. OK. So here's the thing. Me and my boyfriend are totally into each other and have been going out a while now. Anyway long story short, we're both ready to have sex and understand the consequences and stuff, and we're both virgins. We are both of ...
A. 13 February 2007: I have had the morning after pill and never had side affects, and it is NOT a form of contraception and can make you infertile. Use condoms and go on the pill so that if a condom ever splits you will have back up. If the condom does ever split get ... (read in full...)
I'm married, but have a crush on my best friend - should I tell her to stay honest w/ her, or let it go?
Q. Hi, I'll try and keep a long story as short as possible! I'm 33 and have been married 8 years. My best mate is a girl I work with and have known for 4 years. Although I have a pretty big crush on her, the last thing I want to do is wreck our ...
A. 13 February 2007: I really dont think you should tell her. DONT. If you do you could ruin alot more than your friendship. I think you should put all these feelings towards your wife. Shes the woman you married, theres no way you can start making this woman more ... (read in full...)
Help! I'm falling for my chem teacher! What should I do?
Q. Im falling for my chem teacher..there are alot of teacher problems like this soo im pretty hopeful for some advice.. I have talked to a few friends but none of them really know what to say..i kinda feel like im the only one having a problem for fa...
A. 13 February 2007: First off, its completely normal for boys and girls to fancy there teachers. But if you care about him, you will not push this or try to get close to him. It would wreck his life and career if he did anything with you. So please just leave him ... (read in full...)
I have liked this girl for 8 years but we've never dated. She's just came back into my life and I'm so in love with her but she's taken... Advice?????
Q. Hello, im a 25 year old dude with a problem thats around 7 or 8 years old. Yes its a girl, who i'm truly madly deeply in love with. She's seeing this guy from down the country and lived with him for the summer, that was fine cos it was easier f...
A. 13 February 2007: Oh, you seem like such a really decent guy. What i think you should do is, when you see her next, tell her how you feel about her. Just tell her EVERYTHING. If she feels the same, she should leave her boyfriend for you. But dont let her use you as a ... (read in full...)
Is it appropriate to kiss her on a second date?
Q. i wanna go further and kiss this girl. i've dated this girl once before. it all went well. 3 weeks later we are goin again to cinema and to eat out after. i really like her. i ring her twice a week for about 20 minutes. i wanna meet her but she's ...
A. 13 February 2007: Well, hopefully the right time to kiss her will be obvious and it will just happen. If it doesnt, then make it, look at her and smile and just kiss her. Second date is ok for a little kiss. Not a major snog (enless she initiates it) and NO sex. ... (read in full...)
Are there really principled men out there?
Q. I'm a married lady; been married for nearly 10 years now. I'm mostly happy with my husband, and don't want to leave the marriage. Last year i met a great guy i had chemistry with. At the time, we were both honest about our feelings. But as i tol...
A. 13 February 2007: He may just be saying this because he knows you will eat it up and want to bed him after finding out that hes so princibled. BUT, like milyella said, you wont leave your marriage and he probly knows there would be no future. So perhaps he would love ... (read in full...)
The boobs on his phone were his mates having a laugh he said. But he calls "these boobs" every day!!! What should I do about it?
Q. About 2-3 months ago I found a picture on my boyfriends phone of someones breasts while trying to bluetooth an image from mine to his. I calmly asked who it was and he insisted that it was a mate winding him up but I had already called the number ...
A. 13 February 2007: CALL HER. ask her if she knows your boyfriend, then CONFRONT HIM... (read in full...)
I have had romantic feelings for both genders...How do I know if I'm bisexual?
Q. I need help with something, it's been bugging me for a while. How do I know if I'm bisexual? I've never had a girlfriend and I've never had a boyfriend but I have had romantic feelings for both at one point. How do I know? and what do I do?!?!...
A. 13 February 2007: Its completely normal and common to have feelings towards other girls. It could just be that you look up to her or think shes cool or wish you were like her. Your sexuality will be clear to you eventually, it may feel like your going mad at the ... (read in full...)
What is the best way to figure out your sexuality issues?
Q. What is the best way to figure out your sexuality issues, and whether you're gay, straight, or Bi, when you're from over protective, anti gay family who expect you to be perfect, and live under the same roof till you get married, and talks about ...
A. 13 February 2007: Tell your family to stick it. And like dragonette said, just move the hell out. Your family do NOT own or rule you. But the sexuality thing, in my mind, it takes alot thinking. Deep thinking and meeting people who may be gay like you. Chuck youself ... (read in full...)
Should i keep the faith and continue waiting or figure out how to cut my losses.
Q. Me and my ex-girlfriend were going out for 6 yrs. We were long distance for most of that time. Things were real good for both of us until last year. I got out of the military and she was begging me to move to her. I visited her alot but only on ...
A. 13 February 2007: Well, it seems like she has waited a long time for you to be ready. You dragged your feet, now let her drag hers. You DONT need to get bloody married for goodness sake. She is most likely still in love with and attracted to you. But you have left ... (read in full...)
My husbands ex is back living with him!!!
Q. My husband and I have been married for seven years and recently separated 8 months ago but we have both decided to work on things. My husband has daughters from a previous relationship. I live with our children and my parents. He has just ...
A. 13 February 2007: First off, say to him that if theres anything going on between him and this ex wife, or if hes planning to get back with her. Then tell you now, because he will only break his kids hearts if he gets there hopes up. But, you have to remember that she ... (read in full...)
I like this girl so much but I'm so mixed up in my head. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Q. I was just wondering if u offered relationship help, because I've got myself worked up over a girl, and i really dont know what to do. I started a new job last year, and one of my old friends from school worked there too. I got to know every...
A. 13 February 2007: This girl wants a bit of everything. She was with her boyfriend and started seeing your mate. Then she cant decide who she wants to be with out of you two. Im sorry, and you dont deserve it but, SHE DOES NOT GIVE A DAMN ABOUT YOU. She just loves to ... (read in full...)
I like a guy and he likes me too, only problem is he friend also likes me so he won't act!
Q. I like a guy who likes me too, the only problem is that his best friend likes me too, so he won't act on his feelings. I feel like I'm backed into a corner, what should I do?...
A. 13 February 2007: KISS HIM. His friend has to get over the fact that you like him not the friend. Just go for it. He WILL act if you act first.... (read in full...)
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