On facebook I said another girl is more attractive than my girlfriend, now she's dumped me, how can I get her to forgive me?
Q. Hi, i need a lot of help... About 9 months ago something happened on facebook between me and one of my friends. He told me this one girl was hotter than my girlfriend and i replied yes. It had not occured to me that it would lead me to this ...
A. 31 January 2008: That's a bad one! I don't blame her for being upset, any girl would be. Keep apologising and say how much of a idiot you are. If she dosen't forgive you, move on but remember your lesson. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend won't go down on me anymore, any ideas?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months. We're both in our early - mid 20's. When we first started dating for about the first 3 months he would ALWAYS give me oral sex(though not very good) and always talked about how much he liked giving ...
A. 31 January 2008: I agree with DoubleM, we get alot of questions on this. I think it's simply because your b/f just wants to sastify himself and dosen't care about your pleasure anymore which is very sad. Your b/f in a rut at the moment, your going to have to talk to ... (read in full...)
Caught in an online love-triangle.
Q. I'm in a bit of a love triangle...See i am already in a relationship with a guy (online but i've met him, its an LDR) and its been around two years now. It was heavenly when we started out but i feel its fading away now. I still do love him though ...
A. 30 January 2008: I'm not going to try and solve online dating, it's not real and no your not in love. It's not possible... (read in full...)
Married women and sex toys. Opinions please....
Q. I would like to ask women who are married and using toys. Do you think these toys can substitute your husband? Why do you use them? and would it be possible that woman will get addicted to the toy and enjoy it more than her husband? I need an hone...
A. 30 January 2008: I don't have any sex toys, I'm still young though so maybe when I'm older and single I will! BUT yes some women can become quite addicted to the toy, I remember reading a question from a man about his wife who only got off using sex toys. But in ... (read in full...)
Does my teacher have feelings for me?
Q. I've fancied this teacher at my school for 3 years, i've recently realised that I think i'm in love with him. Lately he's been making innuendo's that he may have feelings for me too. When i'm around him he constantly stares at me, and when I look a...
A. 30 January 2008: In my school we had the PE teachers coming out to girls at the prom, you know once school ended and they said some corny line like now its legal we can get together! as if they want to get with those perves anyway! In school days well one of the ... (read in full...)
My friend assaulted his child!
Q. If you had a friend that you had known for a couple of years and then you found out that some time ago they had been in the paper for assaulting their child who was 3 at the time, would you then see that friend in a different light and would it make ...
A. 29 January 2008: I would never be freinds with a pedophile... (read in full...)
Is there a way I can trust him after he cheated, I thought he was perfect for me
Q. Hi everyone, I could really do with some advice! I was in a long distance relationship with a gorgeous guy, who I love so much. He is gorgeous and kind - I loved seeing him at the weekends, and trusted him. Well, a year ago, he got a new...
A. 29 January 2008: Your either going to have to trust him or leave. There's a chance he may cheat again but he may not. You know him better than any of us. ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with my 15 year old girlfriend, how can I speed things up?
Q. i'm 14 and i want to have sex with my 15 year old girlfriend. ive been with her for 3 months now, and i really like her alot for such a short space of time. you guys probably think im too young to know what love is but i do, i was with this other ...
A. 29 January 2008: She'll regret it if she slept with you, do you want that? if you really love her, then wait till she's 16. Thats what she wants and you shouldn't push her, if you keep pushing she may end up dumping you. ... (read in full...)
I cheat on him to get back at him and because I am lonely! Help
Q. God I am so stupid, well I know what everyone is going to think when they see this, "what a whore". Well here it goes... Iv been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and Im only 21. We love eachother and we have had a lot of problems but we have always ...
A. 28 January 2008: I don't think your a whore. Both of you are cheating so both of you are in the wrong. This relationship needs to end, you are not good for each other, simple as.... (read in full...)
I pulled away from a threesome. Should I go back and go with the flow?
Q. Hello, this is kind of a last resort because I know my friends would not understand. I am 15 and I am not eager to lose my virginity. Last night, I was with two friends (girls 14 and 16) in a bed and they both tried to touch me in a sexual way, I ...
A. 28 January 2008: Well it's not very nice is it? If my b/f lost his virginity in a threesome I wouldn't be very impressed nor would alot of people. Meet that special someone than maybe after have a threesome if the offer still there but really, losing it to a guy and ... (read in full...)
Is liking a 13 year old girl wrong, since I am 16?
Q. hi, i recently been hanging around with a girl, i really like her but im 16 and she is 13 is this wrong if i was to ask her out cos of the age difference? bearing the fact that i dont want sex i just want her ...
A. 27 January 2008: Yes it's wrong and maybe you should get help. Why would you want an 13yr old? there's alot of diffrences between you two, in teenage years a few years is alot. Your maturity levels are at diffrent stages, unless your really immature for your age.... (read in full...)
I go down on her but she won't repay the favour. Contemplating break up!
Q. im 17 n want my gf to give me head but she won't. How can I persuade her otherwise? I go down on her but she won't repay the offer. and shes done it b4 with her ex and sum random guy when she was drunk and blacked out just that the fact tha...
A. 27 January 2008: She properly didn't enjoy doing it before, quite a few people down enjoy going down on thier partner. Men or women. Just cause she dosen't give you head your willing to leave her? what sort of person does that make you? can't you both compromise? ... (read in full...)
This girl can't get over her paranoia and it's starting to feel like she doesn't trust me.
Q. Ive been with my girl for just over 7 months now and i love her to bits, but she always says how she doesn't deserve me, and asks; "There are way better lookin girls than me why have you chosen me, wouldn't u prefer to be with them?" To begin ...
A. 24 January 2008: Yeah I can see why thats annoying! tell her what you told us, say you love her and she dosen't need to comapare herself with other girls as you chose her!... (read in full...)
The boy my sister likes is catching on to that fact, and now is trying to be physical, and is touching her. Please help!
Q. hey everyone. Well im asking for my sister. She came to me for advice and I don't know what to do. She is 13 and in the 7th grade. She liked some kid in her grade so she started to flirt with him. Well she came home today crying and when I asked her ...
A. 24 January 2008: Well I got a little sister, If I was in your situation I would do two things, tell my parents as they deserve to know, your sister still very young and she's in a problem that she can't deal with. Then go to that boy, he obviously hasn't been taught ... (read in full...)
How can I be strong enough to leave or deal with his having cheated even during my pregnancy?...
Q. My husband was sleeping with this other girl before we were married, he was actually dating her behind my back. He didn't break up with her until after we were married and he kept sleeping with her. We have been married less than 2 years and he ...
A. 24 January 2008: Don't listen to Laura1318, she sounds like a weak woman.
Now his cheated on you twenty times! even when you were pregnant?? You only been together 2 years and he's doing all this. This guy dosen't love or respect you, if he did he wouldn't... (read in full...)
12, He's been flirting and has been nice to me... But he touched me inappropriately. He was suspended for it, but do you think he will do it again?
Q. I'm a 12 year old girl so I am still in public school. This boy in my class has been flirting with me and he has been nice to me. but then he gets all gross towards me and he confuses me. he touched me inappropriately and i told my mother and we ...
A. 24 January 2008: Okay if this is a real question. You know what too do, you tell your mum and teacher that this boy still hasn't stopped touching you. You shouldn't be touched in any sexual matter without your approval. This boy properly needs help... (read in full...)
I cant forget my affair, I love her and it Hurts so much! What can I do?
Q. I was involved in an affair that ended after two months. We both knew it was wrong, I was the married one and she wasn't. My marriage has basically been over for the last four+ years and my wife and I have not been intimate in over three years in a...
A. 23 January 2008: Split with your wife then go from there. If you really love this woman, show her. ... (read in full...)
Is it legal for me to leave home?
Q. Im wondering because my best friends mum and dad are planning to move to california and they have invited me to go with them. Is it legal for me to leave my house is my mum agrees to it? Please tell me anything you know on it thanks...
A. 23 January 2008: you should be talking about this with your mum. I been to America a few times, I loved it but wouldn't want to live there! ... (read in full...)
He was abusive so I finally broke up with him! Would he have changed?
Q. I never flat out told my ex that I was going to break up with him if he kept on being abusive. But, after trying to break up with him many times I finally did. Throughout our relationship and even after I told him that it was because he was ...
A. 22 January 2008: You left, your now free to move on with your life and meet an decent guy. This man has alot of problems that he needs to sort out by himself. Forget about him and move on... (read in full...)
Is it legal for me to leave home?
Q. Im wondering because my best friends mum and dad are planning to move to california and they have invited me to go with them. Is it legal for me to leave my house is my mum agrees to it? Please tell me anything you know on it thanks...
A. 22 January 2008: in the UK I think you need permission if your under 18? I may be wrong. But yes it should be okay if your mum agrees.... (read in full...)
We split up and he wouldn't talk to me when I saw him!
Q. i saw my ex bf earlier and he didnt even look at me or talk, stayed a few mins then left. even his mate was looking at me like he was going to talk. it did kind of upset me that he didnt even say hi, he did say lets me mates when he called it off. ...
A. 22 January 2008: why does it matter? his your ex, he properly dosen't want to be freinds. ... (read in full...)
I am so angry--he 's married and I am tempted to tell his wife!
Q. I broke up with my "boyfriend" three weeks ago after spending three months fighting with him about how he lied to me about being married. He told me after I told him that I loved him. I'm not stupid. He lied very well and I'm way too trusting and ...
A. 22 January 2008: There's arguments for both side, as most people will tell you not too I give you a reason too tell. If you had a husband wouldn't you want to know if he was cheating on you? also its wasting this wife time being with this man as he's a cheater and ... (read in full...)
I made a terrible mistake! how can I prove I didn't mean this?, I am only 12
Q. my problem is my older sister will not talk to me at all because me and her 11 year old girl did some touching (you know) the thing is my older sister ha something similar to her happen when she was my age (11) she wont talk to me or my mom at all ...
A. 21 January 2008: I don't feel sorry for you, being 12 your old enough to realise what you did was wrong. I think there's more to this story than your letting on...... (read in full...)
My son has been behaving sexually towards his sister, how do I handle it?
Q. Hi All, can someone please give me advice on the following: My 12 year daughter had left a note in her bedroom, which I found when I was cleaning her room, it said, Dear Mom, I think i'm pregrant with B...'s baby love S... This I asked her ...
A. 20 January 2008: Your so lucky your daughter told you, god knows what could have happened if she didn't tell you. Your son needs to be reported to the police OR kicked out of the house. He's old enought to realise what he was doing was wrong, he could have got an ... (read in full...)
Does this prove anything?
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl. Ever since school has started this boy in my class has been flirting with me which I think is nice. But this is when he gets confusing, he's nice and flirty and then he gets gross. One time I was talking to my friend by my ...
A. 20 January 2008: you already posted this before, me and several others gave you good advice. Stop wasting our time... (read in full...)
Is it weird to be scared to say "I love you"?
Q. It's been 1 1/2 years since i love you was first said, I'm wondering if it's weird that it's not easy for me to say it (to the same guy), like, i'm scared to and i have to build myself up to say it. i don't know why it's like that, since I don't ...
A. 20 January 2008: I said I love you to my boyfreind first and it was quite hard, I was afraid he would laugh in my face. Maybe you been hurt in the past? maybe you don't mean it so it's hard to say it? start saying it more to him and if it dosen't get easier, start ... (read in full...)
Should we allow our daughter to meet this guy?
Q. My daughter's 16, and in college studying beauty therapy. She intends to work in tourism as a beauty therapist when she's older, and is doing well on her course. She's got a 21-year-old sister who's at university in Nottingham. Last week she ...
A. 20 January 2008: Are you crazy?? this man wants an relationship with your daughter. He's 43, its strange he wants to meet up with an 16yr old, just on a freinds basis. Your daughter could be lieing, she could be showing you only certain transripts of conversations. ... (read in full...)
How can I win the trust of my parents back and start living the life of a normal teenager??
Q. Hey you guys, im 15 years old and i'm having problems in school especially in math. Well the problem is that my parents dont let me do anything infact they dont trust me...because i never used to listen in the past but now i wanna regain that tru...
A. 20 January 2008: You broke their trust before so your going to have to win it back, their just looking out for you. ... (read in full...)
I feel old at 15....is there any way to make myself feel better?
Q. I have good friends, i have been told i could be a model you think i am lucky!! wrong!!! Last year was a great year for me i was 14 had great friends and had no worries and i went on loads of trip. Since November i had a dream of last day of schoo...
A. 20 January 2008: When I was 15, I used to think 18 was old. Now I'm 18 I don't think that. Don't let age get you down, when you leave school you still got two years of college to go and maybe even uni before you go into that big world.... (read in full...)
How should I go about making our relationship something more?
Q. ok so im 17 now before u think "oh he's got a problem" please read everything. I really like a girl and we get on really well but my problem is that she is only 12 atm. Honestly, we just get on so well, we always make each other laugh and see lots...
A. 20 January 2008: So what? its still very strange you lust over a 12yr old girl. Why can't you stick to your own age group? are you so child like you can't understand teenagers your own age? Keep away from kids and start growing up, unless you like children? then you ... (read in full...)
His moods and temper is getting nastier. What is wrong with him?
Q. I have been with my partner for 5 years, we have always argued and had many ups and downs, including him cheating x3) but still loved each other. Over the last year, he has been increasingly nasty when we argue. He has in the past told people lies ...
A. 19 January 2008: Leave, it's that simple. I don't understand and properly never will why women stay in abusive relationships. I love my boyfreind but I would certainly leave if he did what your partner did. ... (read in full...)
I want to know whether I should go to boarding school or not..any advice?
Q. hey iv posted loads of questions of all sorts on this site and would just like to thank you all.Hehe. Just one more question to ask- I really want to know whether i should go to boarding school or not- i know its a stupid question but all my...
A. 19 January 2008: I think you already know the answer... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to go places, for fear that people will ridicule me or bully me!
Q. sometimes i am afraid to go out, because i'm afraid people are going to make fun of me, laugh at me, and call me names such as ugly, EW, and etc.There was this one situation during summer I was at a store a random women told her friend that I am ...
A. 19 January 2008: People can be so horrible. But your just going to have to rise above it, try and be more confident and be happy in yourself, cause guess what? your stuck with yourself for the rest of your life. Just remember not everyone laughing at you, people are ... (read in full...)
Am I crazy to think he's on the verge of starting an affair?
Q. I am a 21 year old girl I have been married for only a year, my husband and I have been together for 4 1/2 years. Throughout our relationship we have had several issues with him flirting with other girls, chatting online inappropriately, hiding ...
A. 19 January 2008: You never should have got married in the first place. Sounds like a time bomb, you know he's going to cheat you just got to find out when. ... (read in full...)
Tony or Adrien - which do I choose?
Q. Hey I need help. I have two guys I really like ones name is tony and the other is adrien and tony lives here and adrien lives in new york. I've met tony and he's nice but he's very hyper he can't sit still for very long he's very goofy and isn't ...
A. 19 January 2008: Neither of them sound very good. ... (read in full...)
He may have another woman. What should I do?
Q. I have been sleeping with a man for awhile now and recently he just up and vanished after we exchanged X-mas gifts. This isn't the first time this has happened. The first time he was gone for 6 months and said he had to re-group himself. he has been ...
A. 18 January 2008: Nothing, this isn't a serious relationship. Your better of moving on and meeting another man... (read in full...)
I'm an artist, but men see me as a sex object. How can I make them take me seriously?
Q. I want to advance in two creative fields, music and writing, but when I try to ask advice to males in those fields or send them my work, they often seem to think I'm trying to "come on" to them or make a pass or something. This isn't true, as I love ...
A. 18 January 2008: Its pretty easy actually, why can't you simply say I got a boyfreind or bring him into the conversation ... (read in full...)
He likes to receive, but won't give. Why not?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been going out for more than a year. he's my first boyfriend and i really relaly love him. we've been having sex for half a year and he's the one who always initiates it. i do go down on him when i feel he wants it, but i ...
A. 18 January 2008: why are you telling us this? you should be telling him this! Yes he's being selfish, but you aren't helping matters by pleasing him and seeming like you expect nothing in return. Next time, make him go down on you first before you return the favour. ... (read in full...)
Am I being foolish thinking that he's stringing me along?
Q. I was engaged and almost married to a guy. He and i called it off a month before the wedding. 2 months later we got back together. 4 months later, my friend suspected that he was cheating and would not tell me why. I broke it off and a week later he ...
A. 18 January 2008: I think you both need to sit down and have a serious talk, seems like confusion on both sides.... (read in full...)
My b/f's friend is being nasty. Who should I believe?
Q. my life is completely screwed up right now! Well..this is the story! my boyfriends bff (ive told u about her) well shes being a pain in the butt saying that im fat and ugly and all that rude stuff! well the one thing that made me mad was that she ...
A. 18 January 2008: Your b/f, she seems jealous of you so I wouldn't believe a word she said. Really it shouldn't be causing all this drama, just ignore her.... (read in full...)
Is this verging on rape?
Q. I'm in Year 11 at school, and one of the boys who I've like for a while is apparently into me. I would do anything for him to like me, and we are quite physical anyway. We have intimate hugs a lot. (He's always been a player.) However, lately, ...
A. 18 January 2008: This guy is a jerk! most girls don't let guys finger them in class! I don't know how you two get away with it without anyone seeing. If you don't like it, then move away from him. This guy just wants sex, thats all he wants from you. Your old enough ... (read in full...)
How should I go about making our relationship something more?
Q. ok so im 17 now before u think "oh he's got a problem" please read everything. I really like a girl and we get on really well but my problem is that she is only 12 atm. Honestly, we just get on so well, we always make each other laugh and see lots...
A. 18 January 2008: I'm 18yr old, my sister is 12. If I found out she was dating an 17yr old guy I would go crazy. You need to get help. There is nothing attractive about a 12yr old, NOTHING. I promise you she's still a kid mentally, Why don't you want an girl your ... (read in full...)
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